Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 9/15/2007

Question
it was the bigginng of 10 grade and this girl i liked last year but she whet out with this other guy so i waited and waited then they broke up at the end of the year. so i asked her out the 2 week of school and she said i will call you with the answer and that day i got the answer and she said i like you but i fell like we don't know each other vary well so perhaps  in the middle of the year. i was ok with that. then one of my friends asked her out and she said yes and he is a new student and I've known her for 2 years i was pissed. So can you help me Please i want her back

Answer
Hello Austin!

Why would you be ok with being blown off? I sure wouldn't be! The point of going out together isn't to get married, it's to start learning about each other!

Frankly, you have nothing to "get back". You never had her in the first place. Her little game about getting back with you and giving you hope that she might go out with you in the middle of the year was just her way to turning you down. She's just too much of a coward to tell you to your face.

NEXT!!!

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Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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