About Michelle Fattig Expertise I can answer questions about educational testing, autism, Asperger's Syndrome, ADD/ADHD, Special Education, IEP, Learning Disabilities, Sensory Processing, Parent Advocacy, Response to Intervention, living and parenting with disabilities, parent rights in special education, school psychology, and more. I cannot provide a medical diagnosis.
Experience I am a school psychologist, medical technologist, author of the Annie Books series: Experience Aspeger's Syndrome and Attention Deficits Through the Eyes of a Child, RTI facilitator, ILCD facilitator, parent advocate, presenter, and researcher. My children and I have Asperger's, ADD/ADHD, and learning disabilities.
Organizations National Association of School Pyschologists, American Medical Technologists, Learning Disabilities Association of Nebraska
Education/Credentials Ed.S. in School Psychology, doctoral studies in SPED Law, SPED Systems Enhancement Leadership, and doctoral candidate Education Leadership. MT(AMT) and MLT(ASCP)
Question My grandson (10 yrs old) was diagnosed as autistic about 4 yrs ago. There has always been an issue concerning his so called assessed temper and for a short time home behavior modification was done. However, I don't believe anyone truly realized how serious his behavior was and is. Something as minor as dropping a sock can cause him to explode in rage and blame his younger brother. He has stabbed his brother with a pencil. Slammed his brothers head against a wall just because he walked between him and a counter. These are just 2 of the things he has done during an episode. He needs medicated and therapy but the parents have can't afford and have no insurance, yet make to much for healthy families or medical. His parents are lost, confused, frustrated and don't know where to turn. I know there will be serious consequences if they don't get some help. Even medicated, I believe my grandson will eventually need to be institutionalized. My question now is, where do we go or turn to for help when there is no insurance or monies to pay for what's needed? They live in Salinas, California.
Answer I apologize for the delay, I tried to answer earlier, but my computer has been acting up. Again, so sorry for that. I would suggest that your grandson's parents look into finding SSI benefits or other financial supports through community, state, or federal funding. The violence is a big concern, and financial strain can only add to the burden you all must be feeling. Some websites which may be helpful:
You may also contact Health and Human Services, or ask his IEP casemanager about in-home support, training, counseling, and/or respite. I hope this is helpful and wish you the best.
