About Michelle Fattig Expertise I can answer questions about educational testing, autism, Asperger's Syndrome, ADD/ADHD, Special Education, IEP, Learning Disabilities, Sensory Processing, Parent Advocacy, Response to Intervention, living and parenting with disabilities, parent rights in special education, school psychology, and more. I cannot provide a medical diagnosis.
Experience I am a school psychologist, medical technologist, author of the Annie Books series: Experience Aspeger's Syndrome and Attention Deficits Through the Eyes of a Child, RTI facilitator, ILCD facilitator, parent advocate, presenter, and researcher. My children and I have Asperger's, ADD/ADHD, and learning disabilities.
Organizations National Association of School Pyschologists, American Medical Technologists, Learning Disabilities Association of Nebraska
Education/Credentials Ed.S. in School Psychology, doctoral studies in SPED Law, SPED Systems Enhancement Leadership, and doctoral candidate Education Leadership. MT(AMT) and MLT(ASCP)
I have a 20 month old nephew who is just now starting speech therapy because he will not talk. He says no words at all.
I am wondering if he is autistic. He not only has no words, but he does not point, will not point out pictures in books, gives very, very poor eye contact, has never played peekaboo, will not smile back at someone, will not respond to his name when called, and never, ever engages in any play with his sibling or cousins. When the room is full of children his age, he is off doing his own thing, never interested in the kids or what is being played with.
Outside, he spends all his time picking leaves off bushes, tearing off branches, and walking around with sticks. He will not engage in playing with balls, chasing balls, etc. He loves carrying around brooms.
He will push people over to things when he wants something, but otherwise has no interest in communicating. I sat beside him in a restaurant for over an hour and not once would he respond to anyone talking to him (not even by making eye contact). He seemed totally absorbed in his food and had no interest in ANYONE around him.
He does not spin or flap. He does not line things up, but he is very advanced at stacking blocks.
At first I wondered if he wasn't deaf, but now I have suspicions that he is autistic, though his parents don't seem concerned.
Do you think he is, and if so, will those doing his speech therapy perhaps discover this as well? I hope so, because I think he needs intervention. I am worried about the little guy, and I am sad to see that I am the only one suspecting anything.
Answer It sounds as if you have very valid concerns. The following websites may be of benefit:
Also, the following questionnaire is one that I use when evaluating a young child:
EARLY CHILDHOOD/PRESCHOOL PARENT QUESTIONNAIRE
Name of Child: _____________________ Date of Birth: ________ Age: _______
Name of Referrer: __________________ Relationship to Child: ______________
Parent/Guardian: ______________________________________________________
Names Address Phone
Date of Referral: ____________
Referral Concern (Please list any concerns about child’s communication, behavior, or development): _____________________________________________________
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Medical History:
Pregancy: _____________________________________________________________
Prenatal: ______________________________________________________________
Birth: _________________________________________________________________
History of Chronic Illness, Head Injury, Ear Infections, Hospitalization, or Accident: ______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________________
Mother: ____________________________ Father: ____________________________
Siblings: _______________________________________________________________
Family History (Special Education, Developmental Delays, Learning Disabilities, Mental Health): _________________________________________________________
Who lives with the child: __________________________________________________
How does the child relate with:
Mother _________________ Father __________________ Siblings _______________
Family activities: ________________________________________________________
Does the child experience difficulty with peers, extended family, or social settings?
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As an infant, did the child experience difficulty with colic or soothing (stiffen or pull away when cuddled or stroked)? ___________________________________________
Communication:
1) Does he or she respond to his/her name: Never Sometimes Often Always
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2) Does he/she express her needs or wants: Verbally Pointing Pulling Tantrums
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3) Does he/she talk like children his/her age? ______________________________
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4) Does he/she follow simple or complex directions? ________________________
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5) Have you ever wondered if he/she is deaf? _______________________________
6) Does he/she seem to hear at times, but not at others? _______________________
7) Does he/she ever seem lost in own little world or stare off? _________________
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8) Does he/she mimic, copy, or like to immitate? ____________________________
_____________________________________________________________________
9) Does he/she seem to have lost words, or say fewer words than before? _________
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Social Concerns:
10) Does he/she smile at family members? __________________________________
11) Does he/she smile at strangers or become overly frightened by strangers? ______
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12) Does he/she prefer to play alone or overly dependent on parent/caregiver for entertainment (you are his favorite/only toy)? ____________________________
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13) Does he/she get things for self? _______________________________________
14) Is he/she very independent or overly attached (extreme separation anxiety)? ____
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15) Has he/she met milestones early or unevenly? ____________________________
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16) Does he/she seem to avoid eye contact or have too much eye contact (watching without mirroring or reacting like a little professor)? _______________________
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17) Does he/she often seem “lost in own little world”? ________________________
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18) Does he/she seem tuned out or uninterested in other children? _______________
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Behavioral Concerns:
19) Does he/she seem to have excessive tantrums or emotional outburst with little or
no provocation? ____________________________________________________
20) Does he/she express frustration or over react to small changes or routine? ______
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21) Does he/she demonstrate a lack of understanding in playing with toys (excessive mouthing, banging, lining up, sorting, focus on one part like spinning, or lack of interest)? __________________________________________________________
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22) Does he/she seem to get stuck on things regularly (wants to stick with one activity over any others, watch the same movie over and over, read the same book over and over, or other)? _________________________________________________
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23) Does he/she have unual attachments to objects? ___________________________
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24) Does he/she toe walk or have unusual facial movements/grimacing? __________
_____________________________________________________________________
25) Does he/she make any unusual hand movements or spin for long periods of time?
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26) Does he/she seem overly sensitive to textures or sounds? ___________________
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If Age Appropriate:
27) Did he/she babble by 12 months? ______________________________________
28) Did he/she gesture (point, wave bye bye) by 12 months? ____________________
29) Did he/she use single words by 16 months? ______________________________
30) Does he/she seem to have an unusually advanced vocabulary? _______________
31) Does he/she seem to have an extremely good memory? ____________________
32) Does he/she demonstrate two-words spontaneously (not echo) phrases by 24 months? _________________________________________________________
33) Has he/she demonstrated any loss of language or social skills of any kind? _____
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You can try to share these sources with his parents and hopefully his speech pathologist will also recognize the signs. Hearing from a "professional" versus a family member can sometimes prompt parents to be more receptive. The speech therapy should focus on creative play to increase functional communication if possible. The following websites may also be helpful:
