Expert: Jene Aviram - 5/12/2009

Question
i have a 7 month old son and he starting doing this shaking his head think at about 5 months and we didn't think anything of it...he just shakes his head back and forth and then stops with this dazed look on his face..well last month he started doing this thing with his hands when he when something would change like pick him up or put him in a swing or carseat. he sticks his arms straight out and starts squeezing his hands in and out and does when he is excited, mad or just anxious...should i be worried?

Answer
Hi Darci,

I wouldn't be overly concerned just yet but I would certainly keep an eye on it.  While these types of mannerisms are common in children with autism, they are also common in premature babies and in babies who are sensory defensive.  Those who are sensory defensive sometimes require services and in others, the sensory obstacles fade away as the baby matures.  Your baby is still so young that I doubt a top professional could give you any specific answers.  Let your pediatrician know your concerns.  If your baby is still doing this by the time he is 12 months old, I would revisit the issue, and get an evaluation from Early Intervention.  

Try not to worry about it.  Easier said than done, I know!  But it's very possible that it's nothing to be concerned about at all.  Does your baby respond to his name?  Does he make eye contact?  Is he interactive?  Does he like simple games, like Peek-a-boo and Pat-a-cake?  Is he making sounds?  As he grows he should start pointing to things, bringing you things and show interest in your reactions.  Autism is a social disorder, so these are the things to watch out for.  Most people would not have paid much attention to these mannerisms but you are obviously a very caring mom and way ahead of the game!

Try to relax and enjoy playing with your baby.

Jene Aviram
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