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why did it happen to him he is the world to me why him why. is going grow out of it or not
Hi Amy,
It's very hard when we can't control what happens to our loved ones. Your brother is very lucky to have you. He needs all the love, support and friendship you're able to give. And while many people with autism are not able to express how they're feeling, I can tell you that he loves and adores you and is ever so grateful to have you in his life.
Autism is not necessarily a bad thing. It definitely makes life more challenging and puts unexpected obstacles in your path, but like everything there is always an up-side. Perhaps you think it's important to have friends. But perhaps your brother doesn't. Perhaps he is happy and has his own dreams and visions.
Your brother might never outgrow services but with treatment, he can advance beyond whatever you think might be possible. And having you as his sister and best friend will make his world a better place.
You are a great sister.
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Answers by Expert:
Jene Aviram
Expertise
How do you know if your child has autism? If you're concerned about your child's behavior and would like to know if they're symptoms of autism, I can help you. If you need behavior and parenting strategies, I have many suggestions and ideas to help you. I can also help you with questions on ABA therapy. I cannot answer biomedical questions.
Experience
I am one of the co-founders of Natural Learning Concepts, a manufacturing company for autism and special education materials. I am an author and writer and my work on the autism spectrum is frequently published by many organizations and renowned magazines. My son has Aspergers and my nephew has autism.
Publications
Autism/Aspergers Digest
Autism Society of America
Autism Today Issue
Spirit Magazine
The Autism Perspective Magazine
Yahoo News
Parenting Magazine
Education/Credentials
My original background and education is computer network engineering. A turn of events led me to switch careers in early 2000 when my passion and driving force became helping people on the autism spectrum. I then co-founded a successful company that helps people on the autism spectrum every day.
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