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I have a 4 year old that was recently diagnosed on the spectrum. My question is it possible that he does well in school with peers and work but it is a different story when he is home. He gets agitated easy and loud noises send him in to panic mode. He also repeats allot and he wants to do the same things over and over again. He has a routine and if for some reason it is interrupted or not the way his brain know it should normally be then he gets upset and we have to reason with him to get him to calm down.
Hi,
yes, that's possible and has been observed quite alot with people on the higher end of the spectrum according to the books (I think Tony Attwood wrote about that) I read and from my own experience.
It's just that the person tries to behave and cope during the day and just crashes when he or she comes home so they appear more autistic at home than at school/work...in fact, they are just themselves, and finally can let go in their familiar environment. Also, after a long day at school his nerves may be on edge and he may be extremely exhausted which also increases anxiety and overall autistic behaviour. I, for example, can be overwhelmed and exhausted beyond belief from a normal uneventful day at work you wouldn't find stressful at all.
Hope that helps
C.
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and therapy of autism you're interested in and give you my personal oppinion about it (if you want to hear it) or, if it applies, tell you about my personal experience. I can answer all questions about what life is like for an autistic person.
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Vous pouvez poser des questions en Francais, si cela ne vous dérange pas que je responds en anglais.
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I am an adult diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome/High Functioning Autism and ADD.
In the past years I have also read a lot about autism and its comorbid conditions and related subjects (as I am experiencing symptoms of most of these or know others who do) , so I have accumulated a lot of layman knowledge in this area
(AD(H)D, Tourette's Syndrome, OCD, sleep disorders, allergies, sensory integration dysfunction, learning difficulties, left/right-brain, giftedness, Irlen Syndrome, prism glasses, executive dysfunction (aka. "inertia"), "special" diets).
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None in the field of autism, apart from being autistic myself !
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