Expert: James Michael Roan - 3/7/2007

Question
I'm a 23 year woman with aspergers syndrome.
1. Is there a website for people with aspergers or autism can look for dates?
2. Sometimes I can't control the volume of my voice. Why is that?
3. Do you anyone with aspergers syndrome who's traveled over seas?
4. I don't like getting praise or compliments. Is this common in aspergers syndome?  

Answer
Hi Kristine;

I am unaware of a website for dating, but it is a very good idea. Let me know what you find.

The voice volume issue is VERY common in AS because of a lack of innate social thinking. By that I mean neurotypicals automatically "check in" to see if they are speaking too loud, are appearing interested in what the other is saying (even though they are not sometimes), and making sure they are not dominating the conversation. These skills can be learned though.

Many people with AS travel. Do you have a problem in this area?

Why do you not like praise or compliments, if you don't mind me asking?

Kind regards,

James