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| Comment | Thank you so much for getting back to me so quickly. I am feeling very overwhelmed with all that I am facing. I am just now starting the battle to recieve my son's rights at my local Regional Center. I've been told that I will have to fight for most of the services that they offer and not to expect anyone to hand me anything on a silver platter. I am also in the middle of a battle with my son's HMO. They have denied all my appeals to have his therapist covered and the sessions are $125 per week. I can barely eek by on my salary as it is even while living with my mother. I appreciate any and all support I can get. I just finished a legal battle with my children's father to get his visitation supervised. I believe he also suffers from the same disorder and was never treated. He has had terrible violent outbursts against my son's violent outbursts. I don't believe my ex ever intends to harm my kids but I don't think he can help it. Thus it was the cause of the end of our 10 year marriage. I was successful in getting it monitored but only by another adult, nothing court appointed or anyone that has true understanding of what is going on. I have been allowed the opportunity to speak to each adult he gets to monitor the visits, which are always to be in a public place and never over night. So thank you once again for your help. You are appreciated more than you know! | ||
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I can answer your questions about parenting your High Functioning Autisic or Asperger`s Syndrome child. In particular, questions about family life, discipline, siblings, finding resources, and working with (sometimes opposing) the educational system are welcome.
I am the parent of an Asperger's Syndrome child who is now 22 years old. She went undiagnosed for 14 years of her life, so I have done extensive reading and Internet research into the possible cause of her difficulties. Even a short 8 years ago, A.S. was practically unheard of by the public educational system.
We fumbled our way through her childhood and early adolescence without any effective outside support. In some ways, that may have been a blessing as we were focused on her abilities rather than a label for her disability. However, I can think of many times when knowing WHY would have been comforting.
Had we known very early on, some social skills interventions might have made her life in school easier. At this point, I like her for who she is so I do not regret how things have turned out. More importantly, she likes herself.
Education/Credentials
I have a Bachelor of Science in Education.
I have worked to educate myself about Autism in general and HFA/AS in particular.
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