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Autism/Questions Answered by Expert Jene Aviram

Subject	Date Asked
4 month old - suspect autism	1/17/2012
Q: I am hoping you can help me with this. I have 4 month old daughter who shows some strange behavior ... A: I can tell you with certainty that you have absolutely nothing to worry about. At four months old, ...
HFA or Aspergers in toddler?	1/13/2012
Q: My 27 month DS has just been approved for EI due to speech and social delays. He would not have been ... A: I'm not entirely sure what your question is. I believe you're asking if a child presents red flags ...
autism	6/23/2011
Q: I first became aware my two and a half year old son had a problem as a baby as he would become very ... A: There are many misconceptions about autism. One of them is that people are shut off in their own ...
2 year old with speech delay	1/13/2011
Q: I have a 2 year old daughter with a speech delay. At 24 months she could say about 5 words. Now ... A: I can see right away that you're a proactive mom. It's great how far your daughter has come with ...
How to handle a child with autism	1/9/2011
Q: My nephew was diagnosed with autism about a year ago he is starting to communicate better with us ... A: I apologize greatly for the late reply but I did not receive your question. I just logged into the ...
My 15 month old son	11/12/2010
Q: My son gavin has been diagnosed by his dr as having a "developmental delay". He cannot pull himself ... A: If your son has been diagnosed as having a "developmental delay" what kind of help is he getting? ...
Concerns about my 10 month old	11/10/2010
Q: I have a few concerns about my son who is just over 10 months. He is very social and has always ... A: Your son is way too young to discern autism and one possibly cannot diagnose over the Internet. ...
previous post	11/8/2010
Q: Jene, I just read a previous post that you responded to and had to comment. My son too is 3.4 mths ... A: I am familiar with Dr. Marcia Bergstrom and have heard wonderful things about her. From what I ...
previous post	11/2/2010
Q: Jene, I just read a previous post that you responded to and had to comment. My son too is 3.4 mths ... A: My sincerest apologies for the late response. I typically get notified immediately when there is a ...
Apraxia and Stereotypical Movement	11/2/2010
Q: My son is 26 months old. At 17 months he was Dx with major hearing loss due to misdiagnosed strep ... A: My sincerest apologies for the late response. I typically get notified immediately when there is a ...
To test for autism?	10/28/2010
Q: My son is 2 years and 8 months old. He has a speech delay (only says about twenty words) and has ... A: I am absolutely in "shock horror" by your post. How on earth could your school tell you that? If ...
Discipline	9/17/2010
Q: My son Travis is three and involved in a special education program since he was 10 months old. I ... A: Dealing with challenging behaviors is one of the hardest things to manage. It can take a great toll ...
Does my son have autism?	9/15/2010
Q: I have a 17month old son who was diagnosed with epilepsy when he was 6 months old. He is currently ... A: You have given very little information about your son. His situation is far more complicated ...
autism questions	8/26/2010
Q: I have a 4 year old son. He will be 5 in January. I noticed some things about my son at a very young ... A: I think you are doing the right thing by seeking an opinion from a specialist. I hope that it's ...
Is there such a thing as mild autism?	8/26/2010
Q: My son turned 4 in July 2010 and just started Pre-K this week. He is one of the younger kids in his ... A: While one can never diagnose over the Internet it definitely does NOT sound like your child has ...
concerned about 22 month old	8/11/2010
Q: My son is 22 months old but his language development seems far behind in comparison with other kids ... A: Firstly, thank you for such nice feedback :-) Secondly... my heart is with you now. I know what ...
concerned about 22 month old	8/10/2010
Q: My son is 22 months old but his language development seems far behind in comparison with other kids ... A: You mentioned a lot of wonderful things about your son and he sounds delightful. It's great how he ...
baby and autism	8/5/2010
Q: I messaged you some weeks ago about my daughter as i was having some concerns about her re:autism. ... A: If she is already following your point... well that is just fantastic. It would be EXTREMELY rare ...
baby and autism	8/5/2010
Q: I messaged you some weeks ago about my daughter as i was having some concerns about her re:autism. ... A: There is nothing in your post that would make me be concerned about autism. It's great that she is ...
3 YR Old Son	7/27/2010
Q: We have a son that is 37 Mo. old that I am concerned may be slightly autistic. My wife won't agree ... A: The only way to know for sure if a child is on the spectrum is to get a comprehensive evaluation. ...
How do I know if my 8 year old has autism	7/26/2010
Q: When my son was 2 instead of playing with his cars we would line them all up in a PERFECT row. If ... A: Your son is clearly a very intelligent little guy. I definitely do NOT think he has a bad attitude. ...
Expressive Communication Disorder/IEP	7/15/2010
Q: My son is 2 years 13 months old. We have been with Early Intervention receiving Speech Therapy and ... A: Johanna, If you don't want your son in a self contained class then you should fight for a regular ...
PDD	7/11/2010
Q: When my child was a baby he had alot of sensory issues like only able to tolerate a hug if it was ... A: It's never too late to seek help for your child if you're concerned. And your son is only 6 years ...
Symptons of autism	7/8/2010
Q: I downloaded the article, "Symptoms of autism" from your website. I don't see anything related to ... A: That article has been downloaded thousands of time, and sometimes modified and distributed over the ...
autisim	7/6/2010
Q: my child is 1 year and 9 months old. He does not respond to his own name when being called. ... A: Your best bet is to do the MCHAT. Please go to this link to find it. After you do the test and ...
Is it time to be concerned?	7/2/2010
Q: My nephew turned 3 in April. He was born prematurely so we contributed a lot of his behaviors to ... A: What a great aunt you are. It's wonderful how you've taken the time to figure out how to help your ...
How to get a referral to have her son diagnosted in Canada	6/30/2010
Q: I am writing to let you know that the mother(from Canada) who contacted you about her son and how ... A: Wow, You are an incredibly kind person. Thank you so much for sending along this information. I'm ...
i believe my son has autism and no one will help me?	6/28/2010
Q: i believe my 3 year old son has autism. i first started noticing the signs when he was a year and a ... A: An incredibly kind person had read your post and sent this information along about getting a ...
autism in 10 month old?	6/23/2010
Q: I am worried about my 10 month old baby. Im concerned about autism. She will not copy sounds such as ... A: It's way too early for you to start worrying about autism. Not only that, but I don't think you're ...
15 week old with poor focus/tracking	5/25/2010
Q: My baby girl is 3 1/2 months old is not making all her milestones on time. She has slightly 'weak ... A: Jodie, Please take autism out of your mind. You have nothing to worry about. There is no way a 3 ...
Can't stop worrying about Regressive Autism twin boys, is it me/maybe oversentitive or is it worth fighting it out with the spouse?	5/24/2010
Q: Keep on worrying about autism, in particular regressive autism, my 2 twins (ID boys). Now 18 months ... A: I'm impressed by your detailed post. You are clearly a very thorough person - and a wonderful ...
An update on my boy, Tom	5/23/2010
Q: I hope you remember me. You have given me lots of advice (and support) about my son Tom. I was ... A: Melissa, Of course I remember you!! And you have officially made my day - actually my week - no, ...
Autism Diagnosis	5/20/2010
Q: My child is four month old. He likes spining of cieling fan. He has good eye contact when I cuddle ... A: You have absolutely NO reason to worry about autism. Millions of people never take folic acid in ...
Asperger like symptoms	4/24/2010
Q: Is it possible to have a very mild form of autism that isn't as full blown as having all the ... A: The autism spectrum is huge. It ranges from having severe challenges to where you are practically ...
i have a few questions about my son	4/21/2010
Q: he at times is very diffult doesnt play well with others and doesnt get along with others in our ... A: It's a little tough to give you a lot of guidance as you've described very little of what you're ...
Sudden Regression	4/18/2010
Q: I have a son with PDD-NOS, diagnosed at 2 1/2 yrs old, that in the last 5-6 months has gone from a ... A: As you've just said, if you are not seeing any results then something needs to change. Lets look at ...
,my 17 month old	4/17/2010
Q: he was crawlin at 5 months n walkin at 9 n half months n even climbin at bout 6 months but theres no ... A: It sounds like your son's gross motor skills are right on track - actually they're way ahead of most ...
autism grandson	4/16/2010
Q: WE NEED HELP!! JOSH IS IN CAMELOT OF OKLAHOMA AND THEY SAY WE HAVE TO FIND A STATE THAT CAN HELP ... A: Finding a good state for helping kids with autism is not easy task. And the districts in each state ...
autism concerns in 7-month old son	4/15/2010
Q: and thanks in advance for an answer. my son is just 7 months old and i've always had some concerns ... A: I can truly understand how nervous you are about your baby. But I really don't think you need to ...
autism- baby symptoms	3/23/2010
Q: I have a 6 month old baby and am concerned about her development. She does not always respond to ... A: I definitely would not be concerned at this age. Your daughters vision and focus is still ...
1 year old and pointing	3/23/2010
Q: My daughter is a year old and I'm not too concerned that she has autism because she is interactive, ... A: I would not be concerned at all. Not even slightly. She is interactive, responsive and ha great ...
Should I be concerned?	3/22/2010
Q: I have a 19 month old toddler, who seems to have hit all his milestones more or less on the mark. He ... A: If you are concerned then yes, you absolutely should get an evaluation. It costs nothing since your ...
worried about speech/autism	3/19/2010
Q: Forgive me for the long, rambling question. When I'm nervous I tend to do that. My son I almost 21 ... A: I know this freaked you out but you're actually very lucky. She could have ended the evaluation ...
Worried about my 17 month old son	3/19/2010
Q: My son will be 17 months old on 3/21 and he has a few behaviors that I am worried about. He only has ... A: It's impossible to diagnose over the Internet but your son does not present like a toddler that has ...
AUTISM	3/16/2010
Q: My son indrajit has been diagnosed of having Autism by a specialist doctor, he is 2 he is undergoing ... A: There are comprehensive evaluations to determine if a child is on the autism spectrum. The ...
autism ?	3/16/2010
Q: first, thank you very much for your time. My daughter is 11 months (2 months premature, so that ... A: Just checking to see how you're doing. I know you haven't seen your pediatrician yet but you are ...
two year old	3/11/2010
Q: my son is 2 years old and only says a few words he has lost a lot of words, his tantrums are non ... A: You haven't given that much information and so it's hard to advise. However, it's always a cause ...
worried about speech/autism	3/10/2010
Q: Forgive me for the long, rambling question. When I'm nervous I tend to do that. My son I almost 21 ... A: I'm not going to keep you in suspense. One can never diagnose over the Internet and only a ...
3 yr old autistic child wont eat.	3/8/2010
Q: My 3 yr old son, who has been diagnosed with autism, will not eat any solid foods. He does eat ... A: You are not alone. There are so many parents out there who have gone through/or are going through ...
red flag?	2/27/2010
Q: My baby is 11 months and 3 weeks and does not wave bye-bye, clap or point. He has met every other ... A: Eleven months is way too early to detect autism. Even so, when I read your post the word autism ...
Worried about 9.5 month old baby	2/26/2010
Q: "I have been worried about my son since he was born in May. He seems to display some red flags of ... A: As parents we worry about everything. It all comes with the territory. Nine months is way too ...
Autistic behaviors in my 8 year old step son	2/26/2010
Q: We have had full custody for 2 yrs with no contact from the bio mom. previously there was neglect ... A: I understand that you've known this doctor for 15 years and that puts you in a difficult situation, ...
Aspergers-3 year old?	2/25/2010
Q: .. I am wondering, and overwhelmed with anxiety (to be honest) about my son, who is 3 years, 4 ... A: I'm impressed with your detailed post and I know that you are concerned. Firstly let me say that ...
Possible Autism or Apraxia	2/24/2010
Q: My son is 25 months old. When he was 12 months old he refused to eat solid food and was finally ... A: It does sound like your son is more likely to have apraxia than autism. While he does share some ...
Could my son have autism?	2/21/2010
Q: My son is 27 months and has Arnold Chiari I and epilepsy. He has absence and complex partial ... A: I don't know a whole lot about Arnold Chiari but I do know that it can affect speech, swallowing ...
16 month old	2/19/2010
Q: We have chatted before about my son, Tom. I hope you remember me. He is now almost 16 months old ... A: Waiting for answers is the hardest part. I know how difficult that must be for you. And believe me ...
Autistic behaviors in my 8 year old step son	2/19/2010
Q: We have had full custody for 2 yrs with no contact from the bio mom. previously there was neglect ... A: Well firstly let me applaud you. You have 7 other kids and now something new on your hands. ...
Is there a possibility that this sounds like autism or does anything else come to mind that I can get him tested for?	2/18/2010
Q: My son looks like your average little boy, but we have always thought something was different about ... A: You did not say how old your son was which makes this question a little harder to answer. If your ...
Autism Red Flags in 13 month old?	2/18/2010
Q: Last week, I had my son evaluated by early intervention and they said he had a 25% delay in both ... A: You are doing all the right things. I'm not sure what led you to get your son evaluated but you are ...
autism ? 3 year old	2/17/2010
Q: I am a mother of 2. My oldest is 3, youngest 18 months. I have questioned my 3 year old son's ... A: I can see that you are a very loving mom who is worried about her son. Let me start by saying that ...
autism signs	2/16/2010
Q: My step son does this constant rocking when he is on the couch, in the car and when he goes to bed. ... A: You didn't say how old your step son is but I do think you have cause for concern. That doesn't ...
2 1/2 year old eval	2/14/2010
Q: I'm not sure if you remember me or not but I've asked some questions about my 2 year old daughter in ... A: How nice to hear from you. Things sound really positive about your daughter. I know that because ...
my brother has autism	2/10/2010
Q: why did it happen to him he is the world to me why him why. is going grow out of it or not A: It's very hard when we can't control what happens to our loved ones. Your brother is very lucky to ...
Can't stop worrying about regressive autism	1/29/2010
Q: Concerned about my identical twin boys who will be 15 months old in a few days, and I can't stop ... A: Take that study out your mind. That article said they tested 48 kids. That's it! If this was a ...
PDD NOS	1/27/2010
Q: I have a 4 years old girl diagnosed PDD NOS. She is now on ABA therapy. Since we are Indonesians, ... A: I can totally understand your concerns. I know how important it is to you that your daughter ...
10 month old concerns	1/14/2010
Q: I need advice on whether to get my daughter evaluated or not. She is meeting all her milestones, she ... A: No, I do not think you need to seek an evaluation. So now that you can breathe a sigh of relief, ...
Fears of Autism in a 12 month old	1/7/2010
Q: I know that 12 months is young to diagnose anything in terms of autism, but I am really worried ... A: I would not take that as a sign of autism. Toddlers put things in their mouths to explore and ...
Fears of Autism in a 12 month old	1/6/2010
Q: I know that 12 months is young to diagnose anything in terms of autism, but I am really worried ... A: It's not really the physical action of pointing that's important, it's the intention behind it. ...
Fears of Autism in a 12 month old	1/5/2010
Q: I know that 12 months is young to diagnose anything in terms of autism, but I am really worried ... A: I can feel your anxiety in your post and my heart goes out to you. It's not easy when we fear that ...
language	1/5/2010
Q: Its been 4 mths since my last post and my son is now 2 1/2. I am still v.concerned about his ... A: Cecelia McCarton definitely knows her stuff. Keep trying to get that appointment with her. If she ...
language	1/5/2010
Q: Its been 4 mths since my last post and my son is now 2 1/2. I am still v.concerned about his ... A: Things sound really positive with your son. It's truly great that he is doing reciprocal play such ...
14 month old	1/4/2010
Q: I am sorry but it would not allow me to ask a follow up so I have had to post a new question. I ... A: It's really good news about the identification of "mommy" and "daddy." That shows that continued ...
14 month old	1/4/2010
Q: I am sorry but it would not allow me to ask a follow up so I have had to post a new question. I ... A: Of course I remember you! How could I not?! There are three things that I find concerning that you ...
Symtoms of Autisum in over 3year children	1/4/2010
Q: My son is now 3years 5 month old & we have main problem with him that he speaks less,like he said ... A: I can hear that you are worried. I'm not exactly sure how your system works in India but I think ...
Autism - 14 month old	1/3/2010
Q: I have contacted you before about my son. He has hit some more milestones since last contacting and ... A: I know you are worried and I know how stressful it is when you just want answers. It's so much ...
Possible autistic behavior?	12/19/2009
Q: First of all, thank you so much for taking the time to address my concern. I'm a young, first time ... A: You can stop worrying right away! Stress does NOT cause autism. There are all sorts of studies ...
child with Asperger's	12/19/2009
Q: I have two lovely little boys, both on the autism spectrum. My younger boy is 6, in 1st grade, and ... A: Goodness me. You certainly have a lot on your plate and what a great attitude! I take my hat off ...
27 month old - signs autism/aspergers	12/18/2009
Q: I have a question for you regarding my 2 year old daughter (almost 27 months) and signs of ... A: I'm thrilled to hear how well your daughter is doing. She always had great skills and it sounds ...
language	12/13/2009
Q: Its been 4 mths since my last post and my son is now 2 1/2. I am still v.concerned about his ... A: It's great how much your son has improved. It sounds like you have a speech therapist who's working ...
Autism - 14 month old	12/9/2009
Q: I have contacted you before about my son. He has hit some more milestones since last contacting and ... A: Even MORE reasons to be hopeful. These are really good signs. The waiting part is the hardest. Try ...
Autism - 14 month old	12/9/2009
Q: I have contacted you before about my son. He has hit some more milestones since last contacting and ... A: Melissa, Wondering how it's going with you? With toddlers there can be so many changes every day. ...
Autism - 14 month old	12/9/2009
Q: I have contacted you before about my son. He has hit some more milestones since last contacting and ... A: I know how scary it feels to be worried about your child developing appropriately so I know where ...
13 months and no gestures	12/2/2009
Q: I have a 13-month-old son, and I am currently having a meltdown worrying about his development ... A: Firstly let me say your baby is still the same baby as he was a few days ago. It's hard not to ...
2 month old baby + signs of autism?	11/24/2009
Q: My son is 2 months and a week old. I never had concerns regarding autism until today when I took ... A: You absolutely should NOT be concerned whatsoever. It is WAY TOO EARLY to recognize any signs of ...
Fine Motor Delay	11/20/2009
Q: Is fine motor delay a sign of autism? My friend's daughter is 13 months old. Her pediatrician has ... A: It certainly changes the picture. If I were in your friend's shoes I would wait another few months. ...
Fine Motor Delay	11/18/2009
Q: Is fine motor delay a sign of autism? My friend's daughter is 13 months old. Her pediatrician has ... A: Many people with autism have fine motor delays, but a fine motor delay alone certainly does NOT ...
Is it too early for ASD diagnosis for 6 month old??	11/10/2009
Q: I have a 6 month old baby boy that I am concerned is showing signs of autism. I know it may still be ... A: When someone you are close to is affected by autism, it is natural to be afraid that your own child ...
PPD NOS	11/8/2009
Q: My 15 year old son just got the diagnosis of PPD NOS. I want to know if I should get him further ... A: Getting a diagnosis is sometimes a huge relief and sometimes it's simply hard to bear. Please keep ...
help	11/5/2009
Q: My son was diagnosed with autism he has alot of behaviors that i am wondering if there related to ... A: Yes. All those things you mention are typical of young children with autism. Your son isn't doing ...
Is this a form of Autism?	10/30/2009
Q: my boyfriend has a 3 year old little girl who I believe has a learning disability or a form of ... A: How wonderful that you have taken the time to write about your boyfriend's daughter. Not being able ...
hi	10/23/2009
Q: - hits the side of his head with his hand(its the right side all the time) - sleeps a lot but when ... A: I wish you the best of luck Leanne. The one thing you can be sure of is that you are taking all the ...
signs of autism in a 12 month old.	10/22/2009
Q: I am the first time mum of a beautiful 12 month old boy (12 months today actually). I have some ... A: Melissa, This is yet another very encouraging sign. Pointing is an important milestone and ...
signs of autism in a 12 month old.	10/22/2009
Q: I am the first time mum of a beautiful 12 month old boy (12 months today actually). I have some ... A: Responding to his name is a WONDERFUL sign. Most young toddlers on the autism spectrum rarely ...
diagnosis: 1 parent agrees to test, one does not	10/21/2009
Q: Could my 13-yr-old stepdaughter possibly have aspergers? I met the girl 3 years ago when she was 10 ... A: While one cannot diagnose over the Internet, it sounds like this young lady is practically "text ...
signs of autism in a 12 month old.	10/21/2009
Q: I am the first time mum of a beautiful 12 month old boy (12 months today actually). I have some ... A: I wonder if this is your first baby. If so, it's quite amazing how aware you are of child ...
hi	10/20/2009
Q: - hits the side of his head with his hand(its the right side all the time) - sleeps a lot but when ... A: I can see that you're concerned about your son and I'm impressed at how much time you've taken to ...
15 month and autism behaviors?	10/18/2009
Q: I would like to get your opinion about my 15 month old son. To my knowledge, he has never pointed ... A: You are certainly on top of things! Because your son is doing so well in so many areas, most people ...
concern about my son's lack of gesturing/not answering to name	10/11/2009
Q: I'm a little worried about my 14 month old son. He is not gesturing to get things he needs and he ... A: Your pediatrician is right that there is a wide range of normal, particularly at this age. Some ...
My four year old son	9/11/2009
Q: I have a four year old son who has been dealing with some difficultly since he was around a year ... A: I feel for you greatly. It's very frustrating when you know that something is not quite right with ...
undignosed autism	9/4/2009
Q: i,am twenty seven and i still live at home . i was told by a counsler that i might have autism all ... A: I feel your pain. Please don't despair this way. There is hope. It's very possible that you are ...
early signs of autism	8/20/2009
Q: I have a 6 month old son.I am concerned about early red flags for autism. Is it true if a baby has ... A: It's so hard not to worry when we have a baby. Especially with the increase in autism. However, ...
9 month old's pattern of behaviors	8/19/2009
Q: My 9 month old baby girl was recently diagnosed with "benign shuddering" by a pediatric neurologist. ... A: As far as I know there is no link between "benign shuddering" and autism. In fact, I believe a lot ...
education	8/18/2009
Q: I work with an 11 year old autistic boy, he is in public school, and does well, He understands ... A: How absolutely wonderful that you care so much. If we can just find more people like you, children ...
Symptoms of autism in a 12 year old	8/18/2009
Q: I have a 12y/o son, he is in the grade was held back in kindergarten because the teacher thought his ... A: Your son sounds incredible. He has coped with his challenges without extra help up to this time. ...
23 month old son with odd behaviors	8/17/2009
Q: Im sure you get tons of posts like this one, seeking opinions on whether what their children do is ... A: Your son sounds too cute for words and it would be my bet that you can safely rule out autism. Your ...
does sensory always mean Autism?	8/14/2009
Q: My 2 yr old son has a speech delay and I was told he has some sensory problems. He was evaluated and ... A: If your son was already evaluated for autism and no red flags were found, then I would say that you ...
infant signs of autism	8/14/2009
Q: Jene, I know 6 months is too early to diagnose autism, but I am curious if there are some red flags. ... A: You are right - 6 months is just way too early to tell. Babies are all so different. I have heard ...
Visual Stim	8/13/2009
Q: I want to thank you in advance for you insightful, sensitive & honest approach to every answer you ... A: I understand that you're very concerned about your son and this is probably making you focus more on ...
Should I be worried?	8/13/2009
Q: I really dont know if I'm working myself up about something or nothing, but could really do with ... A: It sounds like your little one is right on track physically. He sounds delightful and curious about ...
4 mo old eye contact	8/12/2009
Q: I have a very funny feeling about my 6th grandchild and have had qualms about his behavior from the ... A: Let me ease your mind - Yes. You are an extremely blessed over anxious Grandma. So please get some ...
my daughter age 12	8/12/2009
Q: My daughter Amy got menigites when she was five she got over it unharmed we thought, but as time ... A: In answer to your question - yes. I think your daughter should be evaluated. I am less familiar ...
can child lose words while working on another milestone?	8/11/2009
Q: My 11 month old son which is a twin used to sayh mama, dada, and baba..but now he doesn't say ... A: It is quite unusual for a child to lose his words. I would certainly mention this to the ...
childern behaviour	8/10/2009
Q: I am ateacher.iwant to ask u aquestion what is the best way to deal with anaughty child? A: Every child is different. There are many strategies you can use and you have to see which one works ...
Don't know if 17 month old behaviors seem autistic or are just normal	8/9/2009
Q: My son just turned 17 months old and was born 5 weeks premature. He has reached all of his ... A: I truly don't think it's a concern. If you told me that there was a fire truck on the street and ...
Normal infant behavior?	8/9/2009
Q: I am a first time mom so I don't have any other children to compare my baby with. Is this normal for ... A: I know it's hard not to worry. Once we have babies, we worry about everything! Your daughter is ...
Don't know if 17 month old behaviors seem autistic or are just normal	8/5/2009
Q: My son just turned 17 months old and was born 5 weeks premature. He has reached all of his ... A: I must tell you again that I don't think you have cause for concern. It's amazing to watch a child ...
Don't know if 17 month old behaviors seem autistic or are just normal	7/31/2009
Q: My son just turned 17 months old and was born 5 weeks premature. He has reached all of his ... A: Although it's not possible to diagnose over the Internet without a comprehensive evaluation, from ...
10 month old arm flapping, yelling	7/28/2009
Q: I'm concerned that my 10 month old girl may be showing signs of autism. She is very interactive, ... A: Your baby is gorgeous! Too cute for words! She is very young but by what you've said I don't ...
27 month old - signs autism/aspergers	7/25/2009
Q: I have a question for you regarding my 2 year old daughter (almost 27 months) and signs of ... A: There are many sensory challenges that kids might have. I'll try to list some here for you and you ...
CP or Autism	7/25/2009
Q: my 1yr old girl had shown signs of abnormality (or autism) since she born. now i have taken her to ... A: I know this must be such a scary time for you. It's so hard when we fear our children are not ...
Autism Symptoms	7/25/2009
Q: I know you are not going to be able to tell me if my child is autistic but i would just like your ... A: If you received the results, what did they say? I wonder if you're receiving services of any kind. ...
27 month old - signs autism/aspergers	7/25/2009
Q: I have a question for you regarding my 2 year old daughter (almost 27 months) and signs of ... A: I greatly appreciate your feedback. While I couldn't possibly make a solid diagnosis over the ...
Autism Symptoms	7/24/2009
Q: I know you are not going to be able to tell me if my child is autistic but i would just like your ... A: As you said, I can't possibly diagnose your child on the Internet. However, by the description ...
Should I be concerned?	7/23/2009
Q: My son is almost 2 1/2, and honestly ... sometimes he just seems a little "different" to me. It's ... A: I always say that you should follow your instinct. If you feel that something is not quite right ...
9 month old not clapping	7/20/2009
Q: I have a concern regarding my 9 month old son. He doesn't seem to be interested in clapping or ... A: When we have our first baby, we suddenly start to worry about everything! Life is never the same ...
Concerned about 3 yr. old boy-autism?	7/20/2009
Q: I am very concerned about my 3 yr. old son. He does not speak. He has never said one sentence with ... A: I think it's good that your child is seeing a hearing specialist just to rule out any concerns. ...
4 month old and autism	7/16/2009
Q: I am worried about my 4 month old daughter. At her well visit, she wouldn't smile or coo at the ... A: I still don't think you have any cause for concern. As your baby grows, you'll find that she does ...
Caregiver of 2 year old boy	7/15/2009
Q: I am the daycare provider of a 2 year old boy, July 2007 birthday, and am concerned he is delayed ... A: Amber, The parents are lucky that you care about their son and I do think your concerns are very ...
4 month old and autism	7/14/2009
Q: I am worried about my 4 month old daughter. At her well visit, she wouldn't smile or coo at the ... A: You should absolutely NOT be worried. You are probably fearing your daughter's well being because ...
Worried about autism	7/14/2009
Q: I hope you can help me, i'm so worried about my daughter. She is 19 months old. I have been ... A: Eloise, I can feel your panic and my heart goes out to you. Waiting to find out what's wrong with ...
Early signs of autism	7/12/2009
Q: I am concerned about my 11 week old son. He makes minimal eye contact. When I sit him on my lap in ... A: It's always a good idea to talk to your pediatrician if you're concerned, but I don't think you have ...
18 month old lacking eye contact	7/10/2009
Q: I have a 18 month old that is developing normally in every way except he doesn't make eye contact. ... A: Lack of eye contact is most often associated with autism, hearing problems or speech & language ...
Somethings not right ??	7/7/2009
Q: My 3 1/2 year old grandson is displaying characteristics that are concerning me. He has always been ... A: It always amazes me how Grandmas are often the first one's to pick up that something is not right. ...
Asperger's?	7/3/2009
Q: My son is 7 years old. He will be 8 in September. He performs well in school, as far as academics ... A: One of the hardest things is searching for answers. It's really tough when you feel that your child ...
Doctors Not Sure of Diagnosis.	7/1/2009
Q: Hey,My boy is 3 years of age, hav delayed speech but can sing a whole stanza copied from television ... A: Many people with a diagnosis of autism also have sensory integration dysfunction and are hyperactive ...
AS or SID?	6/27/2009
Q: My son (10) was diagnosed with Aspergers 4 years ago. My daughter is almost 6 and as a baby nursed ... A: I'm sure you've heard the expression, "If you've met one child with autism, then you've met one ...
Diagnosing developmental disorders	6/25/2009
Q: My 4 yr old grandson is unable to speak in an intelligible manner. A course of speech therapy does ... A: Your assessment is correct that your grandson should have an evaluation. It sounds like your ...
we are wondering if my great grandchild is autistic or hearing impaired?	6/24/2009
Q: My great grandson displays some signs that may point to autism. He jumps. he likes to line up his ... A: I agree with you that it would not be fair to label your grandson in any way when he is trying to ...
Agressive 8yo w/Autism	6/20/2009
Q: I have an 8yo boy with autism who has aggression issues. He was diagnosed at 2yo and has had good ... A: Holly, It sounds like you're in a really tough predicament. You obviously know your stuff. You've ...
2 year old evaluated but i am not sure	6/19/2009
Q: My youngest son of 5 is just 2 and says 5 words that i can understand. He makes sounds w/inflection ... A: I think we should always pay attention to our instincts. I'm certainly not implying that your son ...
Concerned about 20 month old	6/18/2009
Q: I am concerned that my child may have a mild form of autism. His speech seems delayed, or everyone ... A: It sounds like your son is very smart. He might not be talking a lot but he certainly understands. ...
behaviour problems	6/18/2009
Q: my grandson who is 5 seems to behave antisocially and at the moment is awaiting assessment for ... A: I know this must be a very emotional time. It's very difficult waiting when you feel something is ...
new grandaughter	6/18/2009
Q: my new baby grandaughter is just 10 days old but doesn't like it when we touch her, she stars ... A: It's way too early to detect any signs of autism in a baby that's just 10 days old. I realize that ...
Worried about 23 month old son.	6/16/2009
Q: Two months ago I had my son evaluated by my state's early intervention program because I was worried ... A: I can see that you are a very diligent mom. I know it's hard not to worry but I have to say that ...
I am concerned	6/7/2009
Q: My husband's third brother has mental retardation, and also his second brother's son has autism. ... A: I am not surprised you're concerned. Your family has experienced so much it's no wonder you're ...
Concerned about my 19th month old	6/6/2009
Q: At my son's last doctor visit, he voiced some concerns to me that I hadn't thought about. Since ... A: I can feel your anguish and my heart goes out to you. I know what a difficult time this is for you. ...
Signs of my child	5/27/2009
Q: First,I want to say I have never heard of Austin until the last few weeks.My daughter is 22 months ... A: Jennifer, The first thing you must do is stop blaming yourself. This is NOT your fault. Believe ...
3 month old and autism	5/27/2009
Q: Here is my situation. I have a healthy 3 month old boy. He loves to smile at us and even is ... A: Your baby is so young. I know it's hard not to worry but I don't think you have anything to be ...
Reading opposite	5/27/2009
Q: My son is 3years n 3 months old.He has a habit of reading from right to left. He cannot ... A: The behaviors you mention are not associated with autism. When learning to write, many children ...
autism signs	5/25/2009
Q: I have a friend whose son is a little over 2 and a half. His speech is alittle delayed because he's ... A: It's wonderful that you're so caring about your friend's child. Speaking in sentences and making ...
how normal is this?	5/14/2009
Q: i have asked a question before about my son and you answered it well. i just have a follow up ... A: I know it's hard not to worry. When we have kids we want them to be absolutely perfect and we fear ...
my 7 month old son and autism	5/12/2009
Q: i have a 7 month old son and he starting doing this shaking his head think at about 5 months and we ... A: I wouldn't be overly concerned just yet but I would certainly keep an eye on it. While these types ...
my 7.5 months old	5/8/2009
Q: My seven months old baby sometimes tries to avoid eye contact? most of the time my seven months old ... A: I know it's hard not to worry. Once we have babies, we worry about everything! Your daughter is ...
Autism	5/6/2009
Q: My son kollen is a 9yrs-old twin. I know something is not right. He started school at 3 an spent the ... A: How wonderful to hear what an incredible relationship you have with your son. You must be a great ...
am i paranoid?	5/3/2009
Q: i have a 6 1/2 month old healthy son who smiles and laughs often. he loves playing peek a boo and ... A: Yes. You are definitely worrying unnecessarily. Babies at 6 1/2 months are still developing. If ...
asperger?	4/23/2009
Q: my daughter is 6 years old. at 4 yeaars old we had to take her to a psychiatrist and they diagnosed ... A: Melanie, It sounds to me like you are doing all the right things. Looking for answers is the ...
1 yr old daughter-lack of eye contact	4/15/2009
Q: I've read some of your posts and thought I would reach out to you about our daughter. At her 9mth ... A: You're very welcome. Yes - it is EXTREMELY frustrating when you can't get answers and you feel like ...
1 yr old daughter-lack of eye contact	4/14/2009
Q: I've read some of your posts and thought I would reach out to you about our daughter. At her 9mth ... A: Firstly let me say that you are doing all the right things. There are not many people who get an ...
Leading toward independence for HFA & AS	4/12/2009
Q: I'm a mother of a young man with Asperger's. I'm also a special ed consultant with a school district ... A: As my profile says, I'm better equipped to handle questions about whether a child could be on the ...
24 month old uses my hand- autism	4/12/2009
Q: "I have a 24 month old son. His language skills are great and he has good social skills. He takes ... A: From everything you've written I absolutely would not be concerned about autism. Good language, ...
wondering if my almost 3 yo boy is autistic	4/10/2009
Q: My son is big for his age looks almost 4, has delayed speech in the aspect that noone understands ... A: I usually get notified immediately when someone has asked a question but for some reason, I only got ...
Am I overacting.	4/9/2009
Q: my relative have a two year old child.that I have notice she never interact with us when we visit ... A: I think your concerns are valid. It's very unusual for a child not to make eye contact and not to ...
Does my son need to be tested?	4/9/2009
Q: my son is 15 months old. I have noticed some things that other kids his age dont do. My son will ... A: If you told me your son was three years old I would be far more concerned. He is only 15 months and ...
Concerns about 26 month old son	4/7/2009
Q: I have 26 month old boy/girl twins and have some concerns about my son's language development ... A: I hope things are going well with you. I have been requested by someone to contact you on their ...
Concerns about 26 month old son	4/6/2009
Q: I have 26 month old boy/girl twins and have some concerns about my son's language development ... A: If this had been your first post, I would have definitely told you to relax. Everything you've just ...
Concerns about 26 month old son	4/5/2009
Q: I have 26 month old boy/girl twins and have some concerns about my son's language development ... A: Firstly let me say that your son sounds absolutely adorable. He is obviously very bright with a ...
3 year old son	3/27/2009
Q: My son was evaluated by the EI program in the fall. He was delayed in speech/language and gross ... A: Firstly - YES - it's absolutely possible to have a speech and language delay WITH sensory issues AND ...
Toddler Autism	3/25/2009
Q: My grandson will be 2 years old in a month or so. He does not make any eye contact with me , he ... A: You would be amazed how many Grandma's are the first to notice that something is not right with ...
Daughter with Autism question	3/20/2009
Q: I have a daughter who is 7 months old. She has been continually happy since the day she was born. ... A: You are really on the ball! Not many parents are so aware when their children are so young. Please ...
aspergers	3/19/2009
Q: would you consider problems with eye contact,not able to maintain it, not being able to make simple ... A: One cannot diagnose over the Internet. The only way to get an official diagnosis is to see a ...
Autism or something else?	3/17/2009
Q: I have a 3.5 year old son who I suspect may be autistic. But, I have no idea where to go from here ... A: Let me begin by saying this is NOT your fault. And it certainly doesn't sound like a discipline ...
am i waiting to long?	3/13/2009
Q: We have brought up our concerns to our 4 year old sons doctor, she reffered him to an audiologist ... A: Destiney, I can relate to how you feel. Waiting is the toughest part. You just want to get moving ...
14 month old with very limited eye contact	3/12/2009
Q: My son is about to turn 14 months old in a few days and my husband and I have been worried about ... A: Everything you have told me in this recent post is positive. There is a lot of controversy about ...
Autistic Child?	3/9/2009
Q: I am completely at a loss for what is going on with my daughter. I had a normal pregnancy with ... A: April, What you have described is the TYPICAL profile of a parent who has a child with special ...
14 month old with very limited eye contact	3/9/2009
Q: My son is about to turn 14 months old in a few days and my husband and I have been worried about ... A: Sarah, You are quite incredible. The thought of autism or other development issue doesn't enter ...
Autistic Child?	3/8/2009
Q: I am completely at a loss for what is going on with my daughter. I had a normal pregnancy with ... A: My heart goes out to you. Your path has certainly been rocky. People don't realize how draining it ...
help understanding a student	3/6/2009
Q: I am a preschool teacher and I have a student I am not sure how to help. Everyday when he enters ... A: It's wonderful that you're such a caring teacher. Thank you for taking the time to write. It's ...
Concerns about autism in 10 month old son	3/4/2009
Q: I'm having concerns that my 10 month old son is showing signs of autism. He has never been a ... A: Wow! You are really on the ball! Most people become concerned a few years down the line so you're ...
21 year old daughter ? autism	2/24/2009
Q: my daughter has always been "different" she needed speech therapy has been bullied a lot.She was a ... A: It takes a thorough evaluation to diagnose someone on the autism spectrum, particularly at the age ...
autism help	2/17/2009
Q: he can't hardly speak and hes always beating his head on the floor, doors, chairs, with his hands , ... A: You've given me very little information to go on regarding your grandson. I suggest you read this ...
Question about daughter with suspected ASD	2/15/2009
Q: I have a 40-month old daughter who many people, including her pediatrician, suspect of having an ... A: Nice to hear from you again. Your daughter certainly has proved that she can put two words ...
Question about daughter with suspected ASD	2/12/2009
Q: I have a 40-month old daughter who many people, including her pediatrician, suspect of having an ... A: My heart goes out to you. I understand the emotional turmoil you are going through and I'd like to ...
Is my Child Autistic?	2/5/2009
Q: My 9and 1/2 year old son is shy in school. He is only fond of playing and cycling. He does play with ... A: The good news is that your answers are NOT typical of a child with autism. From your description, ...
Is my Child Autistic?	2/5/2009
Q: My 9and 1/2 year old son is shy in school. He is only fond of playing and cycling. He does play with ... A: The good news is that your answers are NOT typical of a child with autism. From your description, ...
concerned about my nephew	2/5/2009
Q: I'm concerned about my nephew but I don't want to express my concerns to my SIL unless there's ... A: I definitely agree with you that there is cause for concern. If you were writing to me about your ...
i need some help!!!	2/4/2009
Q: i am in need of some help. i have a now 4 year old who has had what i call issues her whole life. ... A: Firstly let me say you are doing a wonderful job! Your love and caring for your daughter shines ...
Is my Child Autistic?	2/4/2009
Q: My 9and 1/2 year old son is shy in school. He is only fond of playing and cycling. He does play with ... A: I can see that you are very concerned about your son. Nothing that you've said stands out as a red ...

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How do you know if your child has autism? If you're concerned about your child's behavior and would like to know if they're symptoms of autism, I can help you. If you need behavior and parenting strategies, I have many suggestions and ideas to help you. I can also help you with questions on ABA therapy. I cannot answer biomedical questions.

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I am one of the co-founders of Natural Learning Concepts, a manufacturing company for autism and special education materials. I am an author and writer and my work on the autism spectrum is frequently published by many organizations and renowned magazines. My son has Aspergers and my nephew has autism.

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My original background and education is computer network engineering. A turn of events led me to switch careers in early 2000 when my passion and driving force became helping people on the autism spectrum. I then co-founded a successful company that helps people on the autism spectrum every day.

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