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About Jene Aviram
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Expertise
How do you know if your child has autism? If you're concerned about your child's behavior and would like to know if they're symptoms of autism, I can help you. If you need behavior and parenting strategies, I have many suggestions and ideas to help you. I can also help you with questions on ABA therapy. I cannot answer biomedical questions.

Experience
I am one of the co-founders of Natural Learning Concepts, a manufacturing company for autism and special education materials. I am an author and writer and my work on the autism spectrum is frequently published by many organizations and renowned magazines. My son has Aspergers and my nephew has autism.

Publications
Autism/Aspergers Digest Autism Society of America Autism Today Issue Spirit Magazine The Autism Perspective Magazine Yahoo News Parenting Magazine

Education/Credentials
My original background and education is computer network engineering. A turn of events led me to switch careers in early 2000 when my passion and driving force became helping people on the autism spectrum. I then co-founded a successful company that helps people on the autism spectrum every day.

   

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In Category  Autism

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Fine Motor Delay11/20/2009
  Q: Is fine motor delay a sign of autism? My friend's daughter is 13 months old. Her pediatrician has ...
  A: It certainly changes the picture. If I were in your friend's shoes I would wait another few months. ...
Fine Motor Delay11/18/2009
  Q: Is fine motor delay a sign of autism? My friend's daughter is 13 months old. Her pediatrician has ...
  A: Many people with autism have fine motor delays, but a fine motor delay alone certainly does NOT ...
Is it too early for ASD diagnosis for 6 month old??11/10/2009
  Q: I have a 6 month old baby boy that I am concerned is showing signs of autism. I know it may still be ...
  A: When someone you are close to is affected by autism, it is natural to be afraid that your own child ...
PPD NOS11/8/2009
  Q: My 15 year old son just got the diagnosis of PPD NOS. I want to know if I should get him further ...
  A: Getting a diagnosis is sometimes a huge relief and sometimes it's simply hard to bear. Please keep ...
help11/5/2009
  Q: My son was diagnosed with autism he has alot of behaviors that i am wondering if there related to ...
  A: Yes. All those things you mention are typical of young children with autism. Your son isn't doing ...
Is this a form of Autism?10/30/2009
  Q: my boyfriend has a 3 year old little girl who I believe has a learning disability or a form of ...
  A: How wonderful that you have taken the time to write about your boyfriend's daughter. Not being able ...
hi10/23/2009
  Q: - hits the side of his head with his hand(its the right side all the time) - sleeps a lot but when ...
  A: I wish you the best of luck Leanne. The one thing you can be sure of is that you are taking all the ...
signs of autism in a 12 month old.10/22/2009
  Q: I am the first time mum of a beautiful 12 month old boy (12 months today actually). I have some ...
  A: Melissa, This is yet another very encouraging sign. Pointing is an important milestone and ...
signs of autism in a 12 month old.10/22/2009
  Q: I am the first time mum of a beautiful 12 month old boy (12 months today actually). I have some ...
  A: Responding to his name is a WONDERFUL sign. Most young toddlers on the autism spectrum rarely ...
diagnosis: 1 parent agrees to test, one does not10/21/2009
  Q: Could my 13-yr-old stepdaughter possibly have aspergers? I met the girl 3 years ago when she was 10 ...
  A: While one cannot diagnose over the Internet, it sounds like this young lady is practically "text ...
signs of autism in a 12 month old.10/21/2009
  Q: I am the first time mum of a beautiful 12 month old boy (12 months today actually). I have some ...
  A: I wonder if this is your first baby. If so, it's quite amazing how aware you are of child ...
hi10/20/2009
  Q: - hits the side of his head with his hand(its the right side all the time) - sleeps a lot but when ...
  A: I can see that you're concerned about your son and I'm impressed at how much time you've taken to ...
15 month and autism behaviors?10/18/2009
  Q: I would like to get your opinion about my 15 month old son. To my knowledge, he has never pointed ...
  A: You are certainly on top of things! Because your son is doing so well in so many areas, most people ...
concern about my son's lack of gesturing/not answering to name10/11/2009
  Q: I'm a little worried about my 14 month old son. He is not gesturing to get things he needs and he ...
  A: Your pediatrician is right that there is a wide range of normal, particularly at this age. Some ...
My four year old son9/11/2009
  Q: I have a four year old son who has been dealing with some difficultly since he was around a year ...
  A: I feel for you greatly. It's very frustrating when you know that something is not quite right with ...
undignosed autism9/4/2009
  Q: i,am twenty seven and i still live at home . i was told by a counsler that i might have autism all ...
  A: I feel your pain. Please don't despair this way. There is hope. It's very possible that you are ...
early signs of autism8/20/2009
  Q: I have a 6 month old son.I am concerned about early red flags for autism. Is it true if a baby has ...
  A: It's so hard not to worry when we have a baby. Especially with the increase in autism. However, ...
9 month old's pattern of behaviors8/19/2009
  Q: My 9 month old baby girl was recently diagnosed with "benign shuddering" by a pediatric neurologist. ...
  A: As far as I know there is no link between "benign shuddering" and autism. In fact, I believe a lot ...
education8/18/2009
  Q: I work with an 11 year old autistic boy, he is in public school, and does well, He understands ...
  A: How absolutely wonderful that you care so much. If we can just find more people like you, children ...
Symptoms of autism in a 12 year old8/18/2009
  Q: I have a 12y/o son, he is in the grade was held back in kindergarten because the teacher thought his ...
  A: Your son sounds incredible. He has coped with his challenges without extra help up to this time. ...
23 month old son with odd behaviors8/17/2009
  Q: Im sure you get tons of posts like this one, seeking opinions on whether what their children do is ...
  A: Your son sounds too cute for words and it would be my bet that you can safely rule out autism. Your ...
does sensory always mean Autism?8/14/2009
  Q: My 2 yr old son has a speech delay and I was told he has some sensory problems. He was evaluated and ...
  A: If your son was already evaluated for autism and no red flags were found, then I would say that you ...
infant signs of autism8/14/2009
  Q: Jene, I know 6 months is too early to diagnose autism, but I am curious if there are some red flags. ...
  A: You are right - 6 months is just way too early to tell. Babies are all so different. I have heard ...
Visual Stim8/13/2009
  Q: I want to thank you in advance for you insightful, sensitive & honest approach to every answer you ...
  A: I understand that you're very concerned about your son and this is probably making you focus more on ...
Should I be worried?8/13/2009
  Q: I really dont know if I'm working myself up about something or nothing, but could really do with ...
  A: It sounds like your little one is right on track physically. He sounds delightful and curious about ...
4 mo old eye contact8/12/2009
  Q: I have a very funny feeling about my 6th grandchild and have had qualms about his behavior from the ...
  A: Let me ease your mind - Yes. You are an extremely blessed over anxious Grandma. So please get some ...
my daughter age 128/12/2009
  Q: My daughter Amy got menigites when she was five she got over it unharmed we thought, but as time ...
  A: In answer to your question - yes. I think your daughter should be evaluated. I am less familiar ...
can child lose words while working on another milestone?8/11/2009
  Q: My 11 month old son which is a twin used to sayh mama, dada, and baba..but now he doesn't say ...
  A: It is quite unusual for a child to lose his words. I would certainly mention this to the ...
childern behaviour8/10/2009
  Q: I am ateacher.iwant to ask u aquestion what is the best way to deal with anaughty child?
  A: Every child is different. There are many strategies you can use and you have to see which one works ...
Don't know if 17 month old behaviors seem autistic or are just normal8/9/2009
  Q: My son just turned 17 months old and was born 5 weeks premature. He has reached all of his ...
  A: I truly don't think it's a concern. If you told me that there was a fire truck on the street and ...
Normal infant behavior?8/9/2009
  Q: I am a first time mom so I don't have any other children to compare my baby with. Is this normal for ...
  A: I know it's hard not to worry. Once we have babies, we worry about everything! Your daughter is ...
M-CHAT8/7/2009
  Q: If the MChat is a valid screening for autism why does it not ask about other repetitive behaviors or ...
  A: By the very little you've said, it does not sound like your son is on the autism spectrum. It's ...
Don't know if 17 month old behaviors seem autistic or are just normal8/5/2009
  Q: My son just turned 17 months old and was born 5 weeks premature. He has reached all of his ...
  A: I must tell you again that I don't think you have cause for concern. It's amazing to watch a child ...
Don't know if 17 month old behaviors seem autistic or are just normal7/31/2009
  Q: My son just turned 17 months old and was born 5 weeks premature. He has reached all of his ...
  A: Although it's not possible to diagnose over the Internet without a comprehensive evaluation, from ...
10 month old arm flapping, yelling7/28/2009
  Q: I'm concerned that my 10 month old girl may be showing signs of autism. She is very interactive, ...
  A: Your baby is gorgeous! Too cute for words! She is very young but by what you've said I don't ...
27 month old - signs autism/aspergers7/25/2009
  Q: I have a question for you regarding my 2 year old daughter (almost 27 months) and signs of ...
  A: There are many sensory challenges that kids might have. I'll try to list some here for you and you ...
CP or Autism7/25/2009
  Q: my 1yr old girl had shown signs of abnormality (or autism) since she born. now i have taken her to ...
  A: I know this must be such a scary time for you. It's so hard when we fear our children are not ...
Autism Symptoms7/25/2009
  Q: I know you are not going to be able to tell me if my child is autistic but i would just like your ...
  A: If you received the results, what did they say? I wonder if you're receiving services of any kind. ...
27 month old - signs autism/aspergers7/25/2009
  Q: I have a question for you regarding my 2 year old daughter (almost 27 months) and signs of ...
  A: I greatly appreciate your feedback. While I couldn't possibly make a solid diagnosis over the ...
Autism Symptoms7/24/2009
  Q: I know you are not going to be able to tell me if my child is autistic but i would just like your ...
  A: As you said, I can't possibly diagnose your child on the Internet. However, by the description ...
M-CHAT7/23/2009
  Q: If the MChat is a valid screening for autism why does it not ask about other repetitive behaviors or ...
  A: The MChat was modified by Dr. Fine in the USA. The original test, The CHAT was developed in ...
Should I be concerned?7/23/2009
  Q: My son is almost 2 1/2, and honestly ... sometimes he just seems a little "different" to me. It's ...
  A: I always say that you should follow your instinct. If you feel that something is not quite right ...
9 month old not clapping7/20/2009
  Q: I have a concern regarding my 9 month old son. He doesn't seem to be interested in clapping or ...
  A: When we have our first baby, we suddenly start to worry about everything! Life is never the same ...
Concerned about 3 yr. old boy-autism?7/20/2009
  Q: I am very concerned about my 3 yr. old son. He does not speak. He has never said one sentence with ...
  A: I think it's good that your child is seeing a hearing specialist just to rule out any concerns. ...
4 month old and autism7/16/2009
  Q: I am worried about my 4 month old daughter. At her well visit, she wouldn't smile or coo at the ...
  A: I still don't think you have any cause for concern. As your baby grows, you'll find that she does ...
Caregiver of 2 year old boy7/15/2009
  Q: I am the daycare provider of a 2 year old boy, July 2007 birthday, and am concerned he is delayed ...
  A: Amber, The parents are lucky that you care about their son and I do think your concerns are very ...
4 month old and autism7/14/2009
  Q: I am worried about my 4 month old daughter. At her well visit, she wouldn't smile or coo at the ...
  A: You should absolutely NOT be worried. You are probably fearing your daughter's well being because ...
Worried about autism7/14/2009
  Q: I hope you can help me, i'm so worried about my daughter. She is 19 months old. I have been ...
  A: Eloise, I can feel your panic and my heart goes out to you. Waiting to find out what's wrong with ...
Early signs of autism7/12/2009
  Q: I am concerned about my 11 week old son. He makes minimal eye contact. When I sit him on my lap in ...
  A: It's always a good idea to talk to your pediatrician if you're concerned, but I don't think you have ...
18 month old lacking eye contact7/10/2009
  Q: I have a 18 month old that is developing normally in every way except he doesn't make eye contact. ...
  A: Lack of eye contact is most often associated with autism, hearing problems or speech & language ...
Somethings not right ??7/7/2009
  Q: My 3 1/2 year old grandson is displaying characteristics that are concerning me. He has always been ...
  A: It always amazes me how Grandmas are often the first one's to pick up that something is not right. ...
Asperger's?7/3/2009
  Q: My son is 7 years old. He will be 8 in September. He performs well in school, as far as academics ...
  A: One of the hardest things is searching for answers. It's really tough when you feel that your child ...
Doctors Not Sure of Diagnosis.7/1/2009
  Q: Hey,My boy is 3 years of age, hav delayed speech but can sing a whole stanza copied from television ...
  A: Many people with a diagnosis of autism also have sensory integration dysfunction and are hyperactive ...
AS or SID?6/27/2009
  Q: My son (10) was diagnosed with Aspergers 4 years ago. My daughter is almost 6 and as a baby nursed ...
  A: I'm sure you've heard the expression, "If you've met one child with autism, then you've met one ...
Diagnosing developmental disorders6/25/2009
  Q: My 4 yr old grandson is unable to speak in an intelligible manner. A course of speech therapy does ...
  A: Your assessment is correct that your grandson should have an evaluation. It sounds like your ...
we are wondering if my great grandchild is autistic or hearing impaired?6/24/2009
  Q: My great grandson displays some signs that may point to autism. He jumps. he likes to line up his ...
  A: I agree with you that it would not be fair to label your grandson in any way when he is trying to ...
Agressive 8yo w/Autism6/20/2009
  Q: I have an 8yo boy with autism who has aggression issues. He was diagnosed at 2yo and has had good ...
  A: Holly, It sounds like you're in a really tough predicament. You obviously know your stuff. You've ...
2 year old evaluated but i am not sure6/19/2009
  Q: My youngest son of 5 is just 2 and says 5 words that i can understand. He makes sounds w/inflection ...
  A: I think we should always pay attention to our instincts. I'm certainly not implying that your son ...
Concerned about 20 month old6/18/2009
  Q: I am concerned that my child may have a mild form of autism. His speech seems delayed, or everyone ...
  A: It sounds like your son is very smart. He might not be talking a lot but he certainly understands. ...
behaviour problems6/18/2009
  Q: my grandson who is 5 seems to behave antisocially and at the moment is awaiting assessment for ...
  A: I know this must be a very emotional time. It's very difficult waiting when you feel something is ...
new grandaughter6/18/2009
  Q: my new baby grandaughter is just 10 days old but doesn't like it when we touch her, she stars ...
  A: It's way too early to detect any signs of autism in a baby that's just 10 days old. I realize that ...
Worried about 23 month old son.6/16/2009
  Q: Two months ago I had my son evaluated by my state's early intervention program because I was worried ...
  A: I can see that you are a very diligent mom. I know it's hard not to worry but I have to say that ...
I am concerned6/7/2009
  Q: My husband's third brother has mental retardation, and also his second brother's son has autism. ...
  A: I am not surprised you're concerned. Your family has experienced so much it's no wonder you're ...
Concerned about my 19th month old6/6/2009
  Q: At my son's last doctor visit, he voiced some concerns to me that I hadn't thought about. Since ...
  A: I can feel your anguish and my heart goes out to you. I know what a difficult time this is for you. ...
Signs of my child5/27/2009
  Q: First,I want to say I have never heard of Austin until the last few weeks.My daughter is 22 months ...
  A: Jennifer, The first thing you must do is stop blaming yourself. This is NOT your fault. Believe ...
3 month old and autism5/27/2009
  Q: Here is my situation. I have a healthy 3 month old boy. He loves to smile at us and even is ...
  A: Your baby is so young. I know it's hard not to worry but I don't think you have anything to be ...
Reading opposite5/27/2009
  Q: My son is 3years n 3 months old.He has a habit of reading from right to left. He cannot ...
  A: The behaviors you mention are not associated with autism. When learning to write, many children ...
autism signs5/25/2009
  Q: I have a friend whose son is a little over 2 and a half. His speech is alittle delayed because he's ...
  A: It's wonderful that you're so caring about your friend's child. Speaking in sentences and making ...
how normal is this?5/14/2009
  Q: i have asked a question before about my son and you answered it well. i just have a follow up ...
  A: I know it's hard not to worry. When we have kids we want them to be absolutely perfect and we fear ...
my 7 month old son and autism5/12/2009
  Q: i have a 7 month old son and he starting doing this shaking his head think at about 5 months and we ...
  A: I wouldn't be overly concerned just yet but I would certainly keep an eye on it. While these types ...
my 7.5 months old5/8/2009
  Q: My seven months old baby sometimes tries to avoid eye contact? most of the time my seven months old ...
  A: I know it's hard not to worry. Once we have babies, we worry about everything! Your daughter is ...
Autism5/6/2009
  Q: My son kollen is a 9yrs-old twin. I know something is not right. He started school at 3 an spent the ...
  A: How wonderful to hear what an incredible relationship you have with your son. You must be a great ...
am i paranoid?5/3/2009
  Q: i have a 6 1/2 month old healthy son who smiles and laughs often. he loves playing peek a boo and ...
  A: Yes. You are definitely worrying unnecessarily. Babies at 6 1/2 months are still developing. If ...
asperger?4/23/2009
  Q: my daughter is 6 years old. at 4 yeaars old we had to take her to a psychiatrist and they diagnosed ...
  A: Melanie, It sounds to me like you are doing all the right things. Looking for answers is the ...
1 yr old daughter-lack of eye contact4/15/2009
  Q: I've read some of your posts and thought I would reach out to you about our daughter. At her 9mth ...
  A: You're very welcome. Yes - it is EXTREMELY frustrating when you can't get answers and you feel like ...
1 yr old daughter-lack of eye contact4/14/2009
  Q: I've read some of your posts and thought I would reach out to you about our daughter. At her 9mth ...
  A: Firstly let me say that you are doing all the right things. There are not many people who get an ...
Leading toward independence for HFA & AS4/12/2009
  Q: I'm a mother of a young man with Asperger's. I'm also a special ed consultant with a school district ...
  A: As my profile says, I'm better equipped to handle questions about whether a child could be on the ...
24 month old uses my hand- autism4/12/2009
  Q: "I have a 24 month old son. His language skills are great and he has good social skills. He takes ...
  A: From everything you've written I absolutely would not be concerned about autism. Good language, ...
wondering if my almost 3 yo boy is autistic4/10/2009
  Q: My son is big for his age looks almost 4, has delayed speech in the aspect that noone understands ...
  A: I usually get notified immediately when someone has asked a question but for some reason, I only got ...
Am I overacting.4/9/2009
  Q: my relative have a two year old child.that I have notice she never interact with us when we visit ...
  A: I think your concerns are valid. It's very unusual for a child not to make eye contact and not to ...
Does my son need to be tested?4/9/2009
  Q: my son is 15 months old. I have noticed some things that other kids his age dont do. My son will ...
  A: If you told me your son was three years old I would be far more concerned. He is only 15 months and ...
Concerns about 26 month old son4/7/2009
  Q: I have 26 month old boy/girl twins and have some concerns about my son's language development ...
  A: I hope things are going well with you. I have been requested by someone to contact you on their ...
Concerns about 26 month old son4/6/2009
  Q: I have 26 month old boy/girl twins and have some concerns about my son's language development ...
  A: If this had been your first post, I would have definitely told you to relax. Everything you've just ...
Concerns about 26 month old son4/5/2009
  Q: I have 26 month old boy/girl twins and have some concerns about my son's language development ...
  A: Firstly let me say that your son sounds absolutely adorable. He is obviously very bright with a ...
3 year old son3/27/2009
  Q: My son was evaluated by the EI program in the fall. He was delayed in speech/language and gross ...
  A: Firstly - YES - it's absolutely possible to have a speech and language delay WITH sensory issues AND ...
Toddler Autism3/25/2009
  Q: My grandson will be 2 years old in a month or so. He does not make any eye contact with me , he ...
  A: You would be amazed how many Grandma's are the first to notice that something is not right with ...
Daughter with Autism question3/20/2009
  Q: I have a daughter who is 7 months old. She has been continually happy since the day she was born. ...
  A: You are really on the ball! Not many parents are so aware when their children are so young. Please ...
aspergers3/19/2009
  Q: would you consider problems with eye contact,not able to maintain it, not being able to make simple ...
  A: One cannot diagnose over the Internet. The only way to get an official diagnosis is to see a ...
Autism or something else?3/17/2009
  Q: I have a 3.5 year old son who I suspect may be autistic. But, I have no idea where to go from here ...
  A: Let me begin by saying this is NOT your fault. And it certainly doesn't sound like a discipline ...
am i waiting to long?3/13/2009
  Q: We have brought up our concerns to our 4 year old sons doctor, she reffered him to an audiologist ...
  A: Destiney, I can relate to how you feel. Waiting is the toughest part. You just want to get moving ...
14 month old with very limited eye contact3/12/2009
  Q: My son is about to turn 14 months old in a few days and my husband and I have been worried about ...
  A: Everything you have told me in this recent post is positive. There is a lot of controversy about ...
Autistic Child?3/9/2009
  Q: I am completely at a loss for what is going on with my daughter. I had a normal pregnancy with ...
  A: April, What you have described is the TYPICAL profile of a parent who has a child with special ...
14 month old with very limited eye contact3/9/2009
  Q: My son is about to turn 14 months old in a few days and my husband and I have been worried about ...
  A: Sarah, You are quite incredible. The thought of autism or other development issue doesn't enter ...
Autistic Child?3/8/2009
  Q: I am completely at a loss for what is going on with my daughter. I had a normal pregnancy with ...
  A: My heart goes out to you. Your path has certainly been rocky. People don't realize how draining it ...
help understanding a student3/6/2009
  Q: I am a preschool teacher and I have a student I am not sure how to help. Everyday when he enters ...
  A: It's wonderful that you're such a caring teacher. Thank you for taking the time to write. It's ...
Concerns about autism in 10 month old son3/4/2009
  Q: I'm having concerns that my 10 month old son is showing signs of autism. He has never been a ...
  A: Wow! You are really on the ball! Most people become concerned a few years down the line so you're ...
21 year old daughter ? autism2/24/2009
  Q: my daughter has always been "different" she needed speech therapy has been bullied a lot.She was a ...
  A: It takes a thorough evaluation to diagnose someone on the autism spectrum, particularly at the age ...
autism help2/17/2009
  Q: he can't hardly speak and hes always beating his head on the floor, doors, chairs, with his hands , ...
  A: You've given me very little information to go on regarding your grandson. I suggest you read this ...
Question about daughter with suspected ASD2/15/2009
  Q: I have a 40-month old daughter who many people, including her pediatrician, suspect of having an ...
  A: Nice to hear from you again. Your daughter certainly has proved that she can put two words ...
Question about daughter with suspected ASD2/12/2009
  Q: I have a 40-month old daughter who many people, including her pediatrician, suspect of having an ...
  A: My heart goes out to you. I understand the emotional turmoil you are going through and I'd like to ...
Is my Child Autistic?2/5/2009
  Q: My 9and 1/2 year old son is shy in school. He is only fond of playing and cycling. He does play with ...
  A: The good news is that your answers are NOT typical of a child with autism. From your description, ...
Is my Child Autistic?2/5/2009
  Q: My 9and 1/2 year old son is shy in school. He is only fond of playing and cycling. He does play with ...
  A: The good news is that your answers are NOT typical of a child with autism. From your description, ...
concerned about my nephew2/5/2009
  Q: I'm concerned about my nephew but I don't want to express my concerns to my SIL unless there's ...
  A: I definitely agree with you that there is cause for concern. If you were writing to me about your ...
i need some help!!!2/4/2009
  Q: i am in need of some help. i have a now 4 year old who has had what i call issues her whole life. ...
  A: Firstly let me say you are doing a wonderful job! Your love and caring for your daughter shines ...
Is my Child Autistic?2/4/2009
  Q: My 9and 1/2 year old son is shy in school. He is only fond of playing and cycling. He does play with ...
  A: I can see that you are very concerned about your son. Nothing that you've said stands out as a red ...

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