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My son Hayden is 4, he has had dev delays from birth. As a baby he did not respond to people. He did not respond to his name until he was almost 2, did not talk, point, babble etc. He started having very severe problems when we put him in daycare, so bad I had to take him to a child psychiatrist who diagnosed him with PDD and put him on Respirdol. The meds have worked, and he has been in occ and physical therapy. Speech therapy too. He can chatter now, but often makes no sense unless it is a very simple conversation(what do you want to eat), he doesn't hold converations appropriately, doesn't make eye contact.
He is starting to become more social but often is inappropriate(hitting, pinching). He doesn't pretend play but loves to have everything just so, it is obessive.
I feel the meds have worked wonders in his aggression and physical stims(hand flapping, rocking) but if you watch him closely he still does some. He says the word bootiebutt over and over again. He will not respond to some questions, and tantrums frequently esp with new routines.
I am concerned that the school will say he is not autistic.
He has a lot of sensory issues, will only eat certain foods, chews and spits out what he doesn't like.
He has never pretended to be spiderman but if another child he is used to being around tries to play he can for a little bit but must be watched. His speech is improving but his psych said she could tell expressive and reception issues along with a disorganized speech pattern. He did not make eye contact nor did he seek to share enjoyment with her. He also went off topic when she tried to converse with him and made no sense at times. He cannot tolerate change.
What do I do next? I have heard that ASD evals can miss it depending on who evals. A lot of professionals(ot/pt, psych, teacher) have noticed ASD traits.
Thanks, Corinn

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Hi Corinn,

It does sound like your son has an autistic spectrum disorder. Technically, "pervasive developmental disorder not otherwise specified" PDD/NOS, is considered to be on that spectrum.

At this point, he is very likely to be diagnosed as autistic. But, even if he is not, the PDD/NOS diagnosis will entitle him to the same therapy for speech, social skills and food sensitivities.

Best wishes,
Catherine

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I can answer your questions about parenting your High Functioning Autisic or Asperger`s Syndrome child. In particular, questions about family life, discipline, siblings, finding resources, and working with (sometimes opposing) the educational system are welcome.

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I am the parent of an Asperger's Syndrome child who is now 22 years old. She went undiagnosed for 14 years of her life, so I have done extensive reading and Internet research into the possible cause of her difficulties. Even a short 8 years ago, A.S. was practically unheard of by the public educational system.

We fumbled our way through her childhood and early adolescence without any effective outside support. In some ways, that may have been a blessing as we were focused on her abilities rather than a label for her disability. However, I can think of many times when knowing WHY would have been comforting.

Had we known very early on, some social skills interventions might have made her life in school easier. At this point, I like her for who she is so I do not regret how things have turned out. More importantly, she likes herself.

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I have a Bachelor of Science in Education.

I have worked to educate myself about Autism in general and HFA/AS in particular.

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