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| BDSM vs some other desire? | 2/7/2010 | Master Nanuck |
Q: I love my wife, but I also know I am craving something. I recently stepped out, and made a decision ...
A: don: Juggling a vanilla and a BDSM lifestyle can be tricky even for the most practiced of us. Many ...
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| BDSM vs some other desire? | 2/7/2010 | Master Nanuck |
Q: I love my wife, but I also know I am craving something. I recently stepped out, and made a decision ...
A: don: You present a very delicate and interesting perspective on submission. One I have seen ...
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| Trust | 2/6/2010 | Master Nanuck |
Q: I have been with my Master for 8mths now.It first started out as an online thing, when I came to the ...
A: teresa It appears the green eyed beast has wrapped its claws around your mind and heart. It will ...
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| How can I find a Master | 2/4/2010 | Stephen Python |
Q: I was wondering how do I find a Master?I live in Florida,USA and I can't see to find any site or ...
A: Christine, Online sites that seek to match Doms with subs include alt.com and collarme.com. The ...
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| Becoming a submissive | 2/4/2010 | Master Nanuck |
Q: I just found out about BDSM not to long ago and I'm interested in becoming a submissive. It's a ...
A: lauren: In our vanilla world many of us are already submissive and do not know it. Submission is ...
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| We've been vanilla for 2 years, but I'm a sub | 2/4/2010 | Mistress Violette |
Q: I have been in a great relationship for about 2 years. My boyfriend and I moved in together about 6 ...
A: Elle, Some folks in BDSM come to the practice of it later in life but it would be unusual for ...
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| How do I cope.... | 2/3/2010 | Stephen Python |
Q: Ok. I have already posted on this site with questions about my wife's involvement in an online M/s ...
A: Limbo_SA, Thank you for the question. I understand well how difficult it is to learn about your ...
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| My wife is in an online Master / Slave relationship | 2/2/2010 | Mistress Violette |
Q: I recently accident found out that my wife is involved in an online Master / Slave relationship. I ...
A: Just to be clear, I didn't mean to imply that she's confused. I said it would be unfair of you to be ...
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| finding a collar | 2/2/2010 | Stephen Python |
Q: my slave wants me to collar her so I told her she can choose what type of collar. She wants a tough ...
A: Sean, I'm not sure I understand exactly what kind of collar you are looking for, but a leather ...
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| My wife is in an online Master / Slave relationship | 2/1/2010 | Mistress Violette |
Q: I recently accident found out that my wife is involved in an online Master / Slave relationship. I ...
A: Limbo_SA, Thank you for your question. You're in a somewhat delicate situation. I hope I can give ...
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| petitioning | 1/31/2010 | ziggy ziegler |
Q: I have been tasked to write a petition as to why i want to be collared to my current partner. I ...
A: Greeting Jeri First I would like congratulate you for what sounds like a wonderful relationship. As ...
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| Branding question. | 1/31/2010 | Oscar G. |
Q: My Master is planning to brand me eventually, but I'm a little nervous about the area. We want to ...
A: In this particular case I am not that extremely intimate with branding more than tattooing or ...
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| How to meet people? | 1/30/2010 | slave jack (577-573-966) |
Q: I've asked this question of you since your profile says you are in the UK while most of the other ...
A: try the fife and tayside bdsm munch. it is the longest running munch in scotland. it is normally ...
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| Responsibility | 1/28/2010 | Stephen Python |
Q: I have a new Master actually my first. He is a man of means and says that he takes very good care of ...
A: Tasha, Thank you for the question. This is a hard question to answer in the abstract, but I would ...
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| Differences | 1/27/2010 | awhitecloud |
Q:
A: well there is a lot. Face to face you can read the other persons expressions, feel the touch and ...
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| Where to start? | 1/27/2010 | slave jack (577-573-966) |
Q: I was wondering in this sort of realtionship where do you start? e.g. do you go to some sort of club ...
A: the ideal way to start is to know what bdsm is really all about. most novices lack the proper ...
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| New to Dom/Sub | 1/27/2010 | Stephen Python |
Q: I have recently started a relationship with a sub. I am looking for books or free online sites ...
A: Dean, The books that you mention are generally recognized as good ones. I believe that you are ...
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| new to bdsm | 1/27/2010 | Oscar G. |
Q: My partner says she is into being dominated. She has expressed this desire a number of times but ...
A: It is a bit problematic when both partners cannot communicate their needs and both are newcomers. ...
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| new to bdsm | 1/27/2010 | ziggy ziegler |
Q: My partner says she is into being dominated. She has expressed this desire a number of times but ...
A: . Please know, I do not have the benefit of being there with you and so my answers are based on ...
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| he loves me | 1/26/2010 | Eirene Nayar |
Q: im new to this lifestyle and am still working on if its rite for me. my new Master after just 2 mo. ...
A: Being a new submissive can be a very scary thing at first. I would suggest talking with your Master ...
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| new | 1/25/2010 | Robert Rubel |
Q: i entered into a M/s relationship where i am the master. i have never been the master before. How do ...
A: Michelle, First, please don't use the small letter "i" when referring to yourself. That's how a ...
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| wife and slave | 1/25/2010 | Stephen Python |
Q: my wife and i have decussed her becomming my submisive salve, and she agrees, we have both signed ...
A: Ronnie, Congratulations on entering the lifestyle. There are a number of books available, none of ...
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| trng | 1/24/2010 | ziggy ziegler |
Q: i am a new slave whom is failing at pleasing her Master. i struggle the most with respecting Him. i ...
A: Greetings Lisa Thank you for your question and i am sorry to hear you are struggling. I hope that ...
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| Third Person | 1/24/2010 | awhitecloud |
Q: I am seeking a sub opinion (although if a D/M wants to also shed some light, that would be welcomed ...
A: You are free to send me any of your questions. I think the Third person way of speaking comes in ...
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| self exceptance | 1/23/2010 | Oscar G. |
Q: I have been aware of my submissive self since i was ten years of age, i never new what it was about ...
A: I know many people started experimenting on their own at the onset of their awareness and self ...
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| Where do I begin? | 1/22/2010 | Master Nanuck |
Q: I have been in a relationship for over two years with a sub. In past relationships, I have never ...
A: amazing Grace: I have feeling you will have come back a number of times to get a handle on things. ...
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| need some serious advice | 1/22/2010 | Eirene Nayar |
Q: I have know this man for 10 years, while I was married to my current x. It was platonic, but there ...
A: No, this is not normal behavior in any kind of open honest relationship. His secrecy is alarming to ...
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| sub zone | 1/22/2010 | Robert Rubel |
Q: i am very new to this lifestyle. i am entering a new relationship and have been given an assignment ...
A: Welcome to this life... "Sub zone" is also called "flying" or "sub-space". It refers to a time ...
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| Collaring ceremonies | 1/20/2010 | Oscar G. |
Q: Is there a website where I can get the proper way to conduct a collaring ceremony ?
A: There may be many descriptions out there just by a judicious use of Google. However you will find ...
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| I'm pregnat | 1/19/2010 | awhitecloud |
Q: I should start by saying I'm a collard Sub and Master and I have been together for just under 2 ...
A: no you need to go to him and sit down and tell him now. And that is not all your fault it takes to ...
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| How to please my master and become more masochistic | 1/17/2010 | ziggy ziegler |
Q: I am a 19 year old female submissive new to the lifestyle, but have been actively practicing for ...
A: First it is so nice to hear that the two of you are a good fit and that you are happy in your chosen ...
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| Novice Sub | 1/17/2010 | Eirene Nayar |
Q: I have my first Master. He is very stern and I love it. My question is it okay to fall in love with ...
A: I think its a natural progression of the M/s relationship that the sub loves her Master. In my ...
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| master/slave | 1/15/2010 | ziggy ziegler |
Q: I just got into a master/slave relationship, my master lives in another state, he's married, what is ...
A: Greetings ophelia. Thank you for your question. Please know that this is based on my personal ...
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| Finding a new real life slave (or cam slave if not possible for rl) | 1/15/2010 | Master Nanuck |
Q: well I am heavily into s/M and I may be only fifteen, but I am not like the other ones that have ...
A: I know the flames that burn and situation you find yourself in today. I discovered my leanings at ...
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| mistress | 1/14/2010 | Master Nanuck |
Q: iam asking is it ok if my wife/mistress gets off and is more wetter, when she puts me in pain. she ...
A: It seems, I as the rest of the experts here had little to offer in the way of an answer. But after ...
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| vanilla partner in submissive relationship with Dom | 1/14/2010 | CougarDomme |
Q: I am a female who has been in a vanilla relationship with a female partner for 13 years. She has ...
A: So much really depends on the relationship you have with your partner. BDSM can be a separate part ...
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| becomeing more of a dom | 1/11/2010 | Oscar G. |
Q: when dealing with a submissive ???? my submissive tells me that she is comfortable with with the ...
A: The point here would be to figure out her HARD limits. Not so much figuring out how and what she ...
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| My husbands online BDSM relationship | 1/11/2010 | awhitecloud |
Q: I have been married for almost 18 years. We have recently entered into a D/s relationship with each ...
A: Claudia, I would be more then upset I would be PISSED! That is not okay in any since of any ...
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| d/s interchangeable | 1/9/2010 | awhitecloud |
Q: I only recently really discovered how much of the d/s - bdsm I have in me sexually and was almost in ...
A: yes it is as it is your relationship and it is about what works for you both and nothing more. ...
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| Naming my new full time slave | 1/8/2010 | Oscar G. |
Q: I am in a F/f M/s relationship and making it official next month. What I would like to know is how I ...
A: It would be far from me to tell what or which name to use. But i could at least point you to ideas ...
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