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| How to be a sub | 7/9/2009 | awhitecloud |
Q: I have been married for 14 years and I have always been the one in control of my marriage, kids, and ...
A: The testing is normal and something that needs to happen, the more he sets limits and holds you to ...
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| Submission | 7/9/2009 | ziggy ziegler |
Q: My partner has requested that I do research on how to be a "true sub". I have never done anything ...
A: Greetings Yes i am familar with the series.. another is called the Market Place series... although ...
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| Submission | 7/8/2009 | ziggy ziegler |
Q: My partner has requested that I do research on how to be a "true sub". I have never done anything ...
A: ... Addmittedly i dont care for the term 'True sub" To me a person who wishes to submit to the ...
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| crying | 7/8/2009 | awhitecloud |
Q: First a little bit about us….into what some would call soft bdsm, fun mainly reserved for the ...
A: Sometime it is hard for a sub to ever have a release that crying can give, I would have to say that ...
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| crying | 7/8/2009 | Oscar G. |
Q: First a little bit about us….into what some would call soft bdsm, fun mainly reserved for the ...
A: I think the question should be aimed at her. To find out if there is any kind of past abuse or ...
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| many questions | 7/7/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: im still researching as much as i can, my next question is that, i am collared by my master, but ...
A: Yes I felt confused a lot at the beginning, but that will pass too. Do I still feel confused? Yes, ...
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| Too sensitive for BDSM | 7/6/2009 | Mistress Violette |
Q: I am 34y/o and have recently come into touch with my submissive qualities and am able to talk about ...
A: Jason, The person you're describing seems a little suspect in the area of being a competent ...
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| puppy play | 7/5/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: i find the idea of master and pet very appealing.my question is should my pet live naked or ...
A: A link for you to give you some ideas: ...
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| Dealing with the outside world's view of me | 7/4/2009 | Mistress Violette |
Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
A: Kristina, I think you've pegged part of your problem. If you don't talk about your Daddy, you don't ...
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| Dealing with the outside world's view of me | 7/4/2009 | Oscar G. |
Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
A: Without having to lie or make up stories or excuses, you should refrain from giving answers. ...
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| Dealing with the outside world's view of me | 7/4/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
A: Ask them "Why do you want to know?" with a smile when they ask why you aren't married and ask them ...
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| Dealing with the outside world's view of me | 7/4/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
A: You are in a pickle aren't you? This question is one we all ask at one time or another. It is as ...
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| bdsm/feminization | 7/4/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: Me and my girlfriend are curious as to why I enjoy and feel the need to dress as a woman even to the ...
A: Doggie style would be preferable, in my opinion, and offer the most ease of control between the two ...
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| responding to femalesub ad | 6/30/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: i 'm a novice that just starting to explore my bd d/s lifestyle responding to a femalesub personal ...
A: I would attend a slosh or munch in your area, and get to know what the Lifestyle is all about before ...
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| Coming open | 6/30/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: To start, I'm 18 and have had a BDSM lifestyle for just over two years now. I was...initiated, I ...
A: Personally, I would speak with Him, and find out for sure, instead of wondering. That way, you can ...
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| Telling my mother | 6/30/2009 | Mistress Violette |
Q: Well, to start off, I'm 18 and have been involved in the BDSM world for about a year now. I really ...
A: Stacy, It's too bad your mother has had a negative experience with BDSM. It's coloring her ...
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| term | 6/30/2009 | ziggy ziegler |
Q: .what does the term try and buy mean? someone used that term recently and I have never heard it ...
A: The term try and buy comes from the earlier days of BDSM here in the states. A dominant might meet ...
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| many questions | 6/30/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: im still researching as much as i can, my next question is that, i am collared by my master, but ...
A: I know it is very powerful this connection you feel with someone who knows what to do with you and ...
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| serving and illness | 6/30/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: i have been on chemo for 16 weeks. i have 8 left. im not doing the radiation but i am on the meds. ...
A: This is hard to answer. I would NEVER suggest smoking pot for the effects of stopping nausea, and ...
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| unsure about my relationship | 6/29/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: My names Kat and I'm 19, and I've been with my boy friend for over 3 years now. 2 years ago i ...
A: First of all I really feel for you. I know how tough this must be for you and know that you are not ...
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| D/s relationship dilema | 6/29/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: I have been in the lifestyle a year, I have known I am a submissive for 20 years, I am with a Dom 2 ...
A: It may be that it's time to seek a new Dom. If this Dom/Master is Not fulfilling your needs, ...
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| unsure about my relationship | 6/29/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: My names Kat and I'm 19, and I've been with my boy friend for over 3 years now. 2 years ago i ...
A: Kat, BDSM is hard wired into us, and while others may dabble in it, the ones among us who are ...
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| Dealing with the outside world's view of me | 6/28/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
A: When dealing with the outside world, and it's judgements, it's important to remember how YOU feel ...
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| slave auctions | 6/27/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: are there any actual slave auctions anywhere,where i could "buy" a slave who has put herself up for ...
A: While I do know there is a site called slaveauction.com(Or at least there was at my last visit), the ...
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| when to coller | 6/27/2009 | awhitecloud |
Q: how long does a Master usually talk to a sub before he collars her and is there any rules what to ...
A: a collar is like a wedding ring there is no set time in which a Dom will give one to a sub, it will ...
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| hello again | 6/27/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: i have another question, i was wondering how can i slave and a master have a relationship if the ...
A: In short, yes you are missing a lot darling, but in one sense it might be good. When one is new it ...
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| questions abought slaves or sub | 6/25/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: ok so i am a learning master for my sub/slave i am working on hre being honist abought her feelings ...
A: She is doing that thing called topping from the bottom. You are the Master, not her. She either ...
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| Christianity and D/s | 6/24/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: Good afternoon, this is probably a strange question but I wish to ask it anyway. I am a Christian ...
A: There are a good many groups on the Internet, like: www.christiansandbdsm.com ...
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| Not sure if new Boyfriend is lying about emotions and BDSM | 6/24/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: I've been dating a guy a little over and month now, and I'm not sure what to think at this point. ...
A: You are not overreacting. People in this lifestyle are hardwired so if he's looking for this and ...
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| understanding a sub ????? | 6/24/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: me and my wife she bing the sub .have tryed swinging in the past .and i thought we had moved on but ...
A: Hell there DOM Well, since you are the dominant person you set the rules and you know that this is ...
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| Bdsm resorts | 6/24/2009 | Oscar G. |
Q: I am recently new to this. My partner and I have a long distance relationship.We are looking for ...
A: Unknown to me if specifically there are BDSM resorts per se in Michigan And/Or Tennessee. However, ...
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| one-time domination | 6/22/2009 | Oscar G. |
Q: I'm a sub married male, whose wife is not interested in it, and I'm getting together with a good ...
A: Best option if to talk it out. Communicate. See what each like, and have in common. See the ...
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| Being emotional | 6/22/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: slavywavy- Hi i am coming back into the lifestyle after being with a very abusive Dom put me off of ...
A: Are emotions normal directly after a scene? Oh yes hun, they are very normal and it is completely ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: http://www.ne-ds.org/home.htm That's the website you need to go to and join that group. Go to some ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | CougarDomme |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: You need to join a local group so that he will know he's not the only one and you two aren't the ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Oscar G. |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: I would say that the distinction here for BOTH OF YOU would be to keep sex play as play and ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Master Shadow |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: Explain that this is an inner need of yours, and that to ignore it, and pretend it doesn't exist ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | DarkDivah |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: I STRONGLY suggest that you find a kink aware professional to help your husband deal with the issues ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | arani_CsA |
Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
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| I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me | 6/22/2009 | Slavywavy |
Q: "I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline ...
A: Darling Jennifer Thank you for shring your fetish and how things have gone for you and your ...
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