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About Master Shadow
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Expertise
Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience
31 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder).

Publications
Alt Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
, Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

   

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How to be a sub7/9/2009awhitecloud
  Q: I have been married for 14 years and I have always been the one in control of my marriage, kids, and ...
  A: The testing is normal and something that needs to happen, the more he sets limits and holds you to ...
Submission7/9/2009ziggy ziegler
  Q: My partner has requested that I do research on how to be a "true sub". I have never done anything ...
  A: Greetings Yes i am familar with the series.. another is called the Market Place series... although ...
Submission7/8/2009ziggy ziegler
  Q: My partner has requested that I do research on how to be a "true sub". I have never done anything ...
  A: ... Addmittedly i dont care for the term 'True sub" To me a person who wishes to submit to the ...
crying7/8/2009awhitecloud
  Q: First a little bit about us….into what some would call soft bdsm, fun mainly reserved for the ...
  A: Sometime it is hard for a sub to ever have a release that crying can give, I would have to say that ...
crying7/8/2009Oscar G.
  Q: First a little bit about us….into what some would call soft bdsm, fun mainly reserved for the ...
  A: I think the question should be aimed at her. To find out if there is any kind of past abuse or ...
many questions7/7/2009Slavywavy
  Q: im still researching as much as i can, my next question is that, i am collared by my master, but ...
  A: Yes I felt confused a lot at the beginning, but that will pass too. Do I still feel confused? Yes, ...
Too sensitive for BDSM7/6/2009Mistress Violette
  Q: I am 34y/o and have recently come into touch with my submissive qualities and am able to talk about ...
  A: Jason, The person you're describing seems a little suspect in the area of being a competent ...
puppy play7/5/2009Slavywavy
  Q: i find the idea of master and pet very appealing.my question is should my pet live naked or ...
  A: A link for you to give you some ideas: ...
Dealing with the outside world's view of me7/4/2009Mistress Violette
  Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
  A: Kristina, I think you've pegged part of your problem. If you don't talk about your Daddy, you don't ...
Dealing with the outside world's view of me7/4/2009Oscar G.
  Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
  A: Without having to lie or make up stories or excuses, you should refrain from giving answers. ...
Dealing with the outside world's view of me7/4/2009CougarDomme
  Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
  A: Ask them "Why do you want to know?" with a smile when they ask why you aren't married and ask them ...
Dealing with the outside world's view of me7/4/2009Slavywavy
  Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
  A: You are in a pickle aren't you? This question is one we all ask at one time or another. It is as ...
bdsm/feminization7/4/2009Master Shadow
  Q: Me and my girlfriend are curious as to why I enjoy and feel the need to dress as a woman even to the ...
  A: Doggie style would be preferable, in my opinion, and offer the most ease of control between the two ...
responding to femalesub ad6/30/2009Master Shadow
  Q: i 'm a novice that just starting to explore my bd d/s lifestyle responding to a femalesub personal ...
  A: I would attend a slosh or munch in your area, and get to know what the Lifestyle is all about before ...
Coming open6/30/2009Master Shadow
  Q: To start, I'm 18 and have had a BDSM lifestyle for just over two years now. I was...initiated, I ...
  A: Personally, I would speak with Him, and find out for sure, instead of wondering. That way, you can ...
Telling my mother6/30/2009Mistress Violette
  Q: Well, to start off, I'm 18 and have been involved in the BDSM world for about a year now. I really ...
  A: Stacy, It's too bad your mother has had a negative experience with BDSM. It's coloring her ...
term6/30/2009ziggy ziegler
  Q: .what does the term try and buy mean? someone used that term recently and I have never heard it ...
  A: The term try and buy comes from the earlier days of BDSM here in the states. A dominant might meet ...
many questions6/30/2009Slavywavy
  Q: im still researching as much as i can, my next question is that, i am collared by my master, but ...
  A: I know it is very powerful this connection you feel with someone who knows what to do with you and ...
serving and illness6/30/2009Master Shadow
  Q: i have been on chemo for 16 weeks. i have 8 left. im not doing the radiation but i am on the meds. ...
  A: This is hard to answer. I would NEVER suggest smoking pot for the effects of stopping nausea, and ...
unsure about my relationship6/29/2009Slavywavy
  Q: My names Kat and I'm 19, and I've been with my boy friend for over 3 years now. 2 years ago i ...
  A: First of all I really feel for you. I know how tough this must be for you and know that you are not ...
D/s relationship dilema6/29/2009Master Shadow
  Q: I have been in the lifestyle a year, I have known I am a submissive for 20 years, I am with a Dom 2 ...
  A: It may be that it's time to seek a new Dom. If this Dom/Master is Not fulfilling your needs, ...
unsure about my relationship6/29/2009CougarDomme
  Q: My names Kat and I'm 19, and I've been with my boy friend for over 3 years now. 2 years ago i ...
  A: Kat, BDSM is hard wired into us, and while others may dabble in it, the ones among us who are ...
Dealing with the outside world's view of me6/28/2009Master Shadow
  Q: I will start with a little background on my relationship before asking my question. I met my Daddy ...
  A: When dealing with the outside world, and it's judgements, it's important to remember how YOU feel ...
slave auctions6/27/2009Master Shadow
  Q: are there any actual slave auctions anywhere,where i could "buy" a slave who has put herself up for ...
  A: While I do know there is a site called slaveauction.com(Or at least there was at my last visit), the ...
when to coller6/27/2009awhitecloud
  Q: how long does a Master usually talk to a sub before he collars her and is there any rules what to ...
  A: a collar is like a wedding ring there is no set time in which a Dom will give one to a sub, it will ...
hello again6/27/2009Slavywavy
  Q: i have another question, i was wondering how can i slave and a master have a relationship if the ...
  A: In short, yes you are missing a lot darling, but in one sense it might be good. When one is new it ...
questions abought slaves or sub6/25/2009CougarDomme
  Q: ok so i am a learning master for my sub/slave i am working on hre being honist abought her feelings ...
  A: She is doing that thing called topping from the bottom. You are the Master, not her. She either ...
Christianity and D/s6/24/2009Master Shadow
  Q: Good afternoon, this is probably a strange question but I wish to ask it anyway. I am a Christian ...
  A: There are a good many groups on the Internet, like: www.christiansandbdsm.com ...
Not sure if new Boyfriend is lying about emotions and BDSM6/24/2009CougarDomme
  Q: I've been dating a guy a little over and month now, and I'm not sure what to think at this point. ...
  A: You are not overreacting. People in this lifestyle are hardwired so if he's looking for this and ...
understanding a sub ?????6/24/2009Slavywavy
  Q: me and my wife she bing the sub .have tryed swinging in the past .and i thought we had moved on but ...
  A: Hell there DOM Well, since you are the dominant person you set the rules and you know that this is ...
Bdsm resorts6/24/2009Oscar G.
  Q: I am recently new to this. My partner and I have a long distance relationship.We are looking for ...
  A: Unknown to me if specifically there are BDSM resorts per se in Michigan And/Or Tennessee. However, ...
one-time domination6/22/2009Oscar G.
  Q: I'm a sub married male, whose wife is not interested in it, and I'm getting together with a good ...
  A: Best option if to talk it out. Communicate. See what each like, and have in common. See the ...
Being emotional6/22/2009Slavywavy
  Q: slavywavy- Hi i am coming back into the lifestyle after being with a very abusive Dom put me off of ...
  A: Are emotions normal directly after a scene? Oh yes hun, they are very normal and it is completely ...
I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me6/22/2009CougarDomme
  Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
  A: http://www.ne-ds.org/home.htm That's the website you need to go to and join that group. Go to some ...
I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me6/22/2009CougarDomme
  Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
  A: You need to join a local group so that he will know he's not the only one and you two aren't the ...
I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me6/22/2009Oscar G.
  Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
  A: I would say that the distinction here for BOTH OF YOU would be to keep sex play as play and ...
I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me6/22/2009Master Shadow
  Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
  A: Explain that this is an inner need of yours, and that to ignore it, and pretend it doesn't exist ...
I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me6/22/2009DarkDivah
  Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
  A: I STRONGLY suggest that you find a kink aware professional to help your husband deal with the issues ...
I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me6/22/2009arani_CsA
  Q: I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline me ...
  A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are ...
I have a Daddy's Little Girl Fetish and I want my husband to FOR REAL discipline spank me6/22/2009Slavywavy
  Q: "I have a Daddy's Little Girl fetish. To make a long story short, I want my husband to discipline ...
  A: Darling Jennifer Thank you for shring your fetish and how things have gone for you and your ...

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