| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| long distance | 7/16/2008 | arani_CsA |
Q: well i am back for another question.After a rocky two weeks with my slave due to the long distance ...
A: Sir... Long-distance relationships of any kind are very difficult; those of the M/s kind even more ...
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| Sir/boy relationship | 7/16/2008 | Superboy |
Q: I have a question concerning how to show a friends boy how much he means to our group of friends who ...
A: Pam, If I was the boy in question, I would be SO honored to receive such a gift. My Sir in ...
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| Buying sex toys in India | 7/15/2008 | XR |
Q: How do you manage to supply toys to India? what if I order online and the toys are confiscated by ...
A: Unfortunately, eXtremeRestraints.com doesn't have the leverage to instill a reasonable attitude in ...
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| approached my MARRIED man, wants to serve, says it's "okay" | 7/13/2008 | Mistress Violette |
Q: Recently I was approached by a guy I know who was very articulate about his fresh understanding that ...
A: Lala, I think it's important not to ignore red flags, so I like your thinking in that regard. I ...
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| new online relationship | 7/13/2008 | CougarDomme |
Q: Just a few weeks into the online world of BDSM - registered at bondage.com forum as a bottom and was ...
A: I'm scared for you sweetie!! Please email me and I will be happy to guide you to the right sort of ...
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| Being Collared | 7/12/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: I an very vanilla in this lifestyle. However, in saying that I'm a quick learner, sub. My Master ...
A: First of all, let me congratulate the both of Y/you! Being collared means you have been found ...
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| Castle Realm | 7/12/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: i use to read and study a lot of the articles on castlerealm but it seems the site has closed down ...
A: I would try Domsubfriends.com for another site. This is not a learning site, per se, but does have ...
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| New Sub | 7/11/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: Although I have always felt submissive in my 'vanilla' relationships, I am uncertain as to how to ...
A: The only way for you to know if the Lifestyle is for you is to experience it first hand. ...
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| discovering what i am having found my master | 7/11/2008 | MrsMarie |
Q: I have always drifted from relationships that were not right for me. Most would last between a year ...
A: Jane, Thanks for writing.. As for your question, no it's not out of the norm for a Master/Dom to ...
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| Reconciling upbringing with BDSM lifestyle | 7/9/2008 | Mistress Violette |
Q: I was raised in a very sheltered religious home, but had thoughts of BDSM(though with nothing to ...
A: Angel, Those shadows and nigglings are common, period. I've known people from all kinds of ...
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| collar | 7/9/2008 | arani_CsA |
Q: slave/girlfriend i have bin dominant all my life but do not have much experience in anything long ...
A: Sir... Thank You for coming to me with Your question. i hope i can help You find the answer You ...
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| Castle Realm | 7/9/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: I have been looking online for quite a while now and I saw your previous answer about castle realm ...
A: So far, I have been unable to reach Lord Colm, or the CastleRealm site, despite numerous e mails. I ...
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| ceremonies | 7/8/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: was speaking with a Master at a recent play party and He was explaining the difference between a sub ...
A: While I have personally never seen, nor heard of the "Taking of The Slave" ceremony, it doesn't ...
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| What is a Master's responsibility? | 7/8/2008 | MrsMarie |
Q: What is a Master's responsibility towards his slave in regards to medical treatment? i am a collared ...
A: lani, I am sorry to hear about your problem. As for what you should do, I would suggest you open ...
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| Dom leaving | 7/8/2008 | awhitecloud |
Q: I just started training with a Dom late last summer, he lives in another state and we got to see ...
A: Good day, sorry for my delay in writing back on this, but I have been mauling this around in my head ...
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| BDSM | 7/7/2008 | Oscar G. |
Q: I like to be claimed by men. I am a lesbian but really enjoy the danger of being taken! Where could ...
A: The fact of your gender orientation might either turn off or entice too much certain guys. But the ...
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| New to BDSM as the sub | 7/7/2008 | MrsMarie |
Q: I have never done anything in the BDSM world and my boyfriend who has a 20 year senior to me has ...
A: Chelsy, You seem to have already started. You didn't complain on weather or not you enjoyed what ...
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| peeing | 7/6/2008 | arani_CsA |
Q: Master wants me to drink pee,it is a hard limit for me and Master wants to get me past them...can ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers that you ...
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| Domme Stepsister | 7/3/2008 | MrsMarie |
Q: I have very domme StepSister who was alwasy and still in control of me, She is Daughter of my ...
A: Neel, For me to answer this would be wrong.. What I think and what happen to you are two different ...
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| New Domme | 7/2/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: What kind of boundaries should I set for my sub? We are both new to the world of BDSM. Also, do I ...
A: Good questions! First off, You do NOT need to have been a sub, or slave to be a Domme, although many ...
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| anal streching | 7/1/2008 | Superboy |
Q: my master wants me to strech my ass what can i use to strech it im 18 mall ANSWER: Hi, and thank ...
A: I don't know your master however I would be a bit disquieted that he wouldn't want you to use ...
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| How to be a better slave to my master | 7/1/2008 | MrsMarie |
Q: PLEASE HELP ME!!! I HAVE BEEN A SLAVE FOR A YEAR NOW.I FIND THAT IM NOT LISTERNING TO MY MASTER ...
A: kellie, You need to stop and try to figure out just what has changed that you no longer listen ...
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| Information on Domme | 6/30/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: I am a married woman of 6 years. I have had the urge and willingness to be a sub in rl. Its in my ...
A: I would be honest with your need. Tell Him it is time, if He wants to try it. Explain how you feel. ...
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| anal streching | 6/29/2008 | Superboy |
Q: my master wants me to strech my ass what can i use to strech it im 18 mall
A: and thank you for writing me. The process of anal stretching is a lot like stretching a piercing, ...
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| D/S confusion | 6/29/2008 | MrsMarie |
Q: Ok, so my husband is in the military - we've known each other for years, but last year when he was ...
A: Mary, This is a hard one, although let me try to explain.. Being submissive can mean doing things ...
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| abused boy seeking long distance rel w\dom | 6/28/2008 | MrsMarie |
Q: i live on an island,and i am looking for a relationship with a kind gentle femdom. i am a bdsm ...
A: rawson, Well I am not sure just what you are looking for but let me suggest a group in which you ...
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| Domme Stepsister | 6/27/2008 | MrsMarie |
Q: I have very domme StepSister who was alwasy and still in control of me, She is Daughter of my ...
A: Neel, Sounds like you need to cut the cord.. Tell her how you feel if you have issues with what she ...
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| Domme Stepsister | 6/27/2008 | MrsMarie |
Q: I have very domme StepSister who was alwasy and still in control of me, She is Daughter of my ...
A: Neel Not really sure what you are asking.. Cleaning and all that can be done without any legal ...
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| Rewards & Punishments | 6/26/2008 | CougarDomme |
Q: I am in a D/s relationship that is not M/s, though we are incorporating some behaviour modification ...
A: Let your imagination run wild. You can get some books to read on the subject at Amazon.com, I've ...
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| Rape and Breed | 6/26/2008 | arani_CsA |
Q: I had a sub ask me if I was into rape and breed? What specifically is she referring to? Thanks!
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i have encountered people who enjoyed raping or ...
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| submissive training | 6/25/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: Sir: Do you have information, or can you direct me to a site where i might get some information on ...
A: Sorry for the lateness of this answer. I had to double check my resources before sending them to ...
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| my fantasy | 6/25/2008 | CougarDomme |
Q: i sometimes think about sounding. is it ruff if not how do i start? it looks interesting
A: It can be very stimulating, but you can also rupture the urethra which can cause you to bleed to ...
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| Support for a Christian in BDSM | 6/23/2008 | arani_CsA |
Q: I am a single Christian woman. I have been succesful professionally, running a department for some ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you seek. ...
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| looking for a starting place | 6/22/2008 | Mistress Violette |
Q: I am a strong, feminist, Christian single girl who has successfully run a department for a number of ...
A: Bethannie, It looks to me like you've been doing at least a little research already, not to mention ...
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| looking for a starting place | 6/21/2008 | Mistress Violette |
Q: I am a strong, feminist, Christian single girl who has successfully run a department for a number of ...
A: Bethannie, First, let me say what follows is my own personal opinion. While many would agree with ...
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| Pro domme | 6/20/2008 | CougarDomme |
Q: I really want to find out how does one start off as a professional Domme?? I have thought about ...
A: You can't even spell or compose a coherent sentence. You are an uneducated piece of trailer trash ...
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| Pro domme | 6/19/2008 | CougarDomme |
Q: I really want to find out how does one start off as a professional Domme?? I have thought about ...
A: Forgive me, but I'm going to be blunt and direct.This isn't a vocation, it's a calling. You ...
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| Dom/sub relationships | 6/16/2008 | arani_CsA |
Q: Ok, first off I am SO new to this it isnt even funny. I am a smoking female who started doing shows ...
A: .. Thank you for coming to me with your question. i hope i can help you find the answers you are ...
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| starting place... | 6/15/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: i had it, but he wanted other girls, so i am back at square one...I guess I am at a loss at this ...
A: Of coarse you can do it. Just be more discerning this time. As I said earlier, do not "settle" for ...
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| starting place... | 6/15/2008 | Master Shadow |
Q: i had it, but he wanted other girls, so i am back at square one...I guess I am at a loss at this ...
A: I would start out by going to munches, sloshes, and events. I would also place a few profiles on ...
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