Expert: CougarDomme - 10/21/2008

Question
I used to date a female that was into fighting (organized and street-wise) and was into the pain of getting hurt from a fight, but she also liked to give intense pain.  From her own experience, she specifically tried to target one part of her female's anatomy.  During the fight she would intentionally try to kick the other female in the clitoris, with the tip of her shoe as hard as she could.  Many times she succeed and was very turned on later.  Often she liked to have intense slapping and kneeing between her legs, or the application of icy hot along with slapping.  The question is how do I find another female like this.  

I was oddly turned on with how strong it made her appear after she kicked another female in the groin.  

Is this extremely rare for a female to like giving and receiving pain betwwen her legs like this.

A few times she asked me to full force kick her groin.  Is there any way to find another female that likes to be kicked hard.  I have asked about eight females and they are all scared of the pain or the damage

Answer
It's like anything else, you have to keep looking.  I would suggest you join a local BDSM group, go to a few munches and ask questions.  You can also look at several adult personal dating sites on the web such as Alt.Com for collarme.Com, both of which cater to the BDSM community.