Expert: awhitecloud - 10/26/2008

Question
i want to be a daddy and go all the way with it, i'm an AB/DL and i used to be a sub, but now i've switched to the top. i define going all the way as changing diapers at night and warming up milk for them, etc... but they say that age-play ranks up near the top of the creep out factor. i dont wish to scare people away. i have had experience with introducing my desires to girlfriends, but if i had gotten anywhere with it is mostly up to luck. the first time, one of them said "i'm not wearing those!" in disgust; the second time, another was cool with it. but the second time, i took it slow. but what happens if i take it slow and she still acts with disgust? i want to go all the way with this, changing diapers (not poopy, i'd use diaper stuffers for that) and feeding with bottles of warm milk. how do i know when it is right to say that i have a fetish and i want to be a daddy without scaring her away.

Answer
I think you need to join places like www.Collarme.com where you can post what it is you’re looking for and meet others that would like the same types of things.

I would think I would want to know upfront what a guy wants of me not get to like and enjoy him and gain trust with him to find out he wants something I can not do, for that makes a lot of hurt and well in the end can really tear people apart.


You need to be open and honest and I know there are some out there that are into all of that type of things, but it will be hard for there is not so many to pick from.  I know if you say that is what your goal is, well you might not have it to start off; it might be one of the things you need to build trust in and work to that point of her doing what all you want.  I would set out a plan and work on building things in the relationship and adding SLOWLY in more of the things you desire.  Who knows you may find someone that wants that all from the start even.

Good luck and please keep me posted and if there is anything else I can do well come back and send me a privet message and we can take it to IM or e-mail even.

awhitecloud