Expert: CougarDomme - 11/15/2008

Question
I am a relatively new Dom but have had quite a few sessions on on one with people and it has worked out well. However for the first time a guy who desires to be used and abused wished to bring along his wife to assist. Can you suggest any good ways to keep her involved in the session? I have thought of directing her to perform the punishments, but can you suggest ways that we can together abuse and humiliate her husband?

Answer
Without knowing and negotiating his scene and limits, there's not a lot I can do for you--I'm flying blind. I'd have a long talk with both of them before I started if I were you to make sure everyone is on the same page and that she's really into it--a lot of wives are NOT into it and are being emotionally coerced into participating. Communication is the key to the scene--and if you've never scened with either of these people before, you are also really flying blind so be careful.  Scening with people you don't know is a dicey thing and there's no such thing as too much communication.