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Hi.. I have been a sub/slave for about 4 months.  My questions are:  is it normal for Master not to reveal is name; is it common practice for Master to command sub/slave to sleep w/other's in real life (and perhaps have men pay); and lastly, is it a common practice for Master to expect payments for sub/slave?  Thank you your response.

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Dear Augustmoon.

Thank you for the question. Please allow me to address each one individually:

1. Is it normal for Master to not reveal his name? Masters who take on a slave or a potential slave in a real time for master and slave relationship will have no issues around revealing his real name. Open and honest communication is one of the corner stones of any master and slave relationship and is practiced by both parties.

2. Is it common practice for master to command a sub/slave to sleep with others in real time (and perhaps have men pay) Where it has been my experience that some masters will arrange for the slave to sleep with others for a number of reasons.
  a. The slave in service to him does not have sex with him and he wants that slave to get those needs met.
  b. The master for medical reasons is unable to have sex with the slave
  c. As a test of their submission to the master
  d. Give a slave a new sexual experience (e.g. bisexuality)
It has not been my experience that the master would offer his or her slave up for sexual use for money

3. Is it common for a master to expect money for a slave? Circa 1950s, a master often traded slaves with other masters and sometimes for the price of a beer but it was all in good fun or because he thought his slave could benefit from being with another master.

Today, we rarely hear of such exchanges and if a slave is traded to another master, he or she does not expect payment for that property.

I hope this has answered your questions, please feel free to ask for further clarification if needed.

Warm regards  

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I am available to answer questions pertaining to the Master slave dynamic. The slaves journey into submission, mentorship, service,leather lifestyle, household management, and training. My life's focus is assisting individuals to realized their fullest potential through self awareness.

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I am a 45 year old female slave who has been part of the BDSM/M/s lifestyle since 1983 and have traveled thought out the community presenting on a wide variety of subjects pertaining to the master slave dynamic. I am currently writing a book on topics concerning the slave. I also host a slaves retreat in TN each year which focuses on the self actualization of the consensual slave. Mentoring and life couching for those involved in power exchange relationships.

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