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Hello Ma'am,
I own two males and it might sound like a dumb question but how many times a day, or a week, can a man masturbate?

thanks for answering,
Jamie

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Hi, Jamie,

It's not a dumb question at all, but it is hard to answer. I can't tell you a specific number, because it depends on the man. Interest in masturbation is tied to a man's age, physical condition, emotional state  and other aspects of his life. And even two men who are similar in those respects could have different wants and needs.

You might have to test each of your subs to get a baseline. Be up front about what you're doing, so they don't hurt themselves trying to please you. Also, be careful not to accidentally set them up for failure by telling them you have certain expectations for their performance. Just tell them you're collecting information, keep communication open, give permission, and observe.

For further information, you might want to do some searching at http://sexuality.org/ There are a number of articles about masturbation and male sexuality you might find helpful.

It's good at ask questions and collect information, Jamie, so I hope you keep doing it and I wish you the best.

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I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.

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Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.

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My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.

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