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hi,
a few months ago i was away on a business trip, feeling horny i went to an escort website and got an African lady to come to my hotel room to give me a handjob, while she was there i told her to keep all her cloths on while i got totally naked, i have been surfing a few femdom handjob sites, i told her i wand to cum twice in this session, the first handjob i came really quickly and had to tell her what i wanted, after about 10 minutes i was ready again and told her i wanted her to slap my balls when she was jerking me off, she was doing this and it was such a turnon for me i couldn't help but to take my cock in my hand so she could concentrate on hitting my balls harder, i kept telling her harder, i was quite sore but such a turnon for me.
when i got back home after a few weeks i went to the same site and found a young African girl working from a private house, i phoned her and told her i wanted a rough handjob and went to visit her, i had to talk he through what i wanted i came really quick and left, the next week i went back to her and she seemed a lot more confident and really hit my balls hard while jerking me off as i came she really gave them a few good hard smacks, i really had a good orgasiun, the next week i went back to her and she really knew what i wanted, she hit my balls so hard i was quivering on her bed as i came, she then told me she had bought a strapon which i asked her to show me, when she put it on i immediately got hard again, she started to jerk me off then told me to masturbate for her while she slapped my ball which i did, she was speaking to me and telling me that she wanted to use the strapon on me and dominate me with all this talk i came again, just the thought of is was such a turn on, i have now been fantasizing about going back to her an letting her fuck me and also make ing me eat my own cum, should i go?


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Although I would go were I you, I would also provide my own strapon. There is no way you can tell if the strapon She is using has been used on another person before being used on you. Make sure to clean it before and after EVERY use, or risk getting an infection.


They are not hard to clean, and most can be soaked for five minutes in a tablespoon of bleach mixed with a gallon of water. Let the device air dry, then place it into a clean container of some type. This way, it will always be ready for playtime.

In the mean time, have fun. Have Her start with something of a proper size, as you do not need to be torn. Also, have Her work slowly at first, until your anus loosens up a little before proceeding to rougher play. I would also allow about a week between sessions to allow your balls to heal properly. Remember, it doesn't take much to damage your balls, but it does take a long time for them to heal if injured.

If at ANY time your testicles become swollen, seek immediate medical attention, as gangrene can set in in as little as 12 hours (Something called testicular torsion, where the spermatic tubes and blood supply become tangled, and circulation is lost).

I hope this helps, and wish you the best of luck.


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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

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35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

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Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

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Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

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Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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