Expert: Oscar G. - 11/14/2008

Question
hello my name is Matthew i am bi sexual when i was 16 i had a master but when i moved here to Ohio two years ago i had to leave him and i can find a new one i feel incomplete with out one how do i find a new one

Answer
Hi Matt:

Living in the midwest is a bit harder for alternate lifestyle. But the best way to search is the same way you posted your question. The Internet has access to social gathering within you area or within driving distance. There are also BDSM social sites from with i can mention 2 free Collarme.com and FetLife, which is like Mypace but kinky. Both those could help you socialize at least on the web and could lead you to local events, activities or connections.
Also thereis Alt.com, which is free to join, but gotta pay to be proactive send mail and see profiles deeper.

All in all, be safe with people even if over the internet. Do not be to eager to meet if the person does not fit your needs. Meet in safe places and have back up calls to call before, during and after knowing anyone new. After all being said, i hope this can help you find compatibel people around you.

Be well and be safe. Take care.
Oscar G.