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Can a poly household work were the Domme is allowed others and the subs are exclusive to her. If she wishes a child from sub 2 and the first sub is her husband, can that work?

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Not having a crystal ball, I am unable to take a peek into the future, but there are a lot of legalities here particularly when marriage and children are involved. Not knowing any of the people involved, I can't say whether this situation will work or not.  I know that, legally speaking, any children would be considered issue of the marriage without regard to the biological reality.  This opens a huge can of worms somewhere down the road, so my best advice is not to do this without consulting a family law attorney.

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