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I have did all the research i can on this lifestyle and now i think that i am ready to be apart of it. How do i go about trying to do this? I really do want to do this but also want to be in a relationship as well how do i do this?

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you need to find and start attending munches in your local area and meeting people that are in the lifestyle.  It is a good place to get to know others in the lifestyle and to learn more about what it is that you want to seek in life.  You can there talk openly with others that are actively using the lifestyle in their lives and see how it works for them as well.

Good luck and if you need more help send me a privet message here with your e-mail and I will contact you off list to see if I can help you out more.

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awhitecloud

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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