About Master Shadow Expertise Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.
Experience 31 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.
Organizations Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder).
Publications Alt Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".
Education/Credentials , Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.
i am new to the lifestyle,met someone on a dating site and shared with him what lifestyle i'm interested in only after we spent some time together and i could see that i trusted him. Now it seemed we were at the same level but he seems to have lost interest saying that i don't show initiative or put any effort in this lifestyle. In a way he's right, i kind of slacked off because i thought we were moving to fast...him wanting me to call him Sir in front of my family is just an example, we're just beginning and i didn't even know if i wanted that now...i am submissive, i do care about him and feel he would be the one person i want to love, serve and obey but i'm in need of some serious education & guidance on this subject. At this point that's all i'm asking of you, guidance.
ANSWER: I can answer your questions, but you would need to be more specific in details. Please send me details on where you need the guidance, and I will try to answer your concerns, and guide where I can.
SINcerely in Leather,
Master Shadow.
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QUESTION: At this point i need training resources, i want to be a good submissive, maybe certain books i can read, sites i can visit that might be a bit educational....anything that can teach me more about submission
Answer As far as books go, anything by Jack Rinella, or Jay Wiseman would be in order. SM 101 by Jay Wiseman is a very good book, as is The Complete Slave, by Jack Renilla.
As far as sites go, Submissiveloving.com is fairly good source of information, as is gloria-brame.com. Another is steel-door.com. There is also Bondage.com, which is a kink/chat site.
There are a few videos as well. One is a documentary, called BDSM. Alternative Loving. It is a well made documentary that shows a real time Lifestyle relationship
I hope this helps some. Forgive the lateness of this answer, I was hospitalized on Christmas, and so was unable to get online.
