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What is the signficance of a Master giving his sub a new name?

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Greetings Yolanda

Thank you for the question. Let me see if I can give you my perception of this.

For some masters its a matter of ownership. By changing a slaves name to fit something he or she prefers is a reminder to the slave and those around the slave of his or her place in the slaves life.

Another idea is a sense of rebirth that comes from changing the slave’s name, its a symbolic gesture of leaving behind their old life and accepting a new life as slave.

Lastly, a name change can be more of a scene or lifestyle name to protect the slave’s identity. Often times in the case where people are active in the BDSM community and want to protect themselves if they have kids or ex spouses who might attempt to take the slaves kids if they found out they are in an alternative lifestyle such as this.

Whether the name change is legal or not a person’s identity to the slave is core to their autonomy. Once could argue the role of mastery in a master slave relationship is to greatly reduce the slaves autonomy.

Again thank you for such and interesting question.   I hope you find my answer helpful. If you have any follow up questions please feel free to ask.

Warmest regards
slave ziggy

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I am available to answer questions pertaining to the Master slave dynamic. The slaves journey into submission, mentorship, service,leather lifestyle, household management, and training. My life's focus is assisting individuals to realized their fullest potential through self awareness.

Experience

I am a 45 year old female slave who has been part of the BDSM/M/s lifestyle since 1983 and have traveled thought out the community presenting on a wide variety of subjects pertaining to the master slave dynamic. I am currently writing a book on topics concerning the slave. I also host a slaves retreat in TN each year which focuses on the self actualization of the consensual slave. Mentoring and life couching for those involved in power exchange relationships.

Organizations
TES MAST ROCHESTER NY MAsT national

Publications
Slave quarters: "The mind body spirit of consensual slavery" Art of slavery Tryscilian society

Education/Credentials
Aside from learning from lifes experiences i have a BA in psychology and a masters in socialogy. i have studied gender and human sexuality in an ever changing world.

Awards and Honors
Southeast slave 2006 International slave 2006

Past/Present Clients
Masters and slaves

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