Expert: Master Shadow - 12/3/2008

Question
I am 26 yo male who is a slave/submissive to a 56 yo man.
We met on the net a year ago and it is 24/7 relationship.
I enjoy pain and he is sort of sadist and we have daily "fun" and I enjoy king like drinking piss, piss enema, spanking, flogging, cbt

I have some questions on which I would like to get some "professional" answers
1. I enjoy my cock to be whipped hard by a 9-tail whip. It makes me hard and my master spank my hard cock till it is purple and I stay hard for hours. I enjoy this a lot. My question is, is it  safe and what damage can occur.

2. I like my balls stretched by a sort of parachute and have a bucket hanged and slowly filled with water. Up to now, I can handle 25 litres. My question is, is it  safe and what damage can occur.

3. anal sex - I receive anal regularly to please my master. however, I hate it and find it really uncomfortable but as a good slave I do it regularly because my master enjoys it epsecially because I don't and it is like being raped every time.
Is there anyway, I can learn how  to enjoy receiving anal??

Answer
As far as the cock beating, a cock, while it can take a lot, can be permanently damaged should the blood vessels, or nerve be damaged. This could result in loss of erection, and possibly loss of the ability to orgasm, or diminished sensation in the cock, thereby making orgasm difficult.

Now, as to the ball stretching. I would not place more than five pounds in weight total on the testicles, as testicular torsion (Blood supply gets kinked), or possible tearing of the spermatic cord could result. Either case scenario requires the IMMEDIATE attention of a doctor, and emergency room, and could result in loss of one or both testicles, or possibly loss of life due to gangrene setting in(Within 12 hours at the latest).

Should you experience any swelling of either one or both testicles, or experience pain in the testicles after play/scening, you should seek the attention of a medical professional immediately, to ascertain whether or not immediate medical attention, or possibly surgery would be necessary.

Anal sex, if approached slowly, taking more time to stretch out the recipient before full penetration, can be enjoyable for both parties. It should be approached in a comfortable, relaxed atmosphere. The partner should use plenty of water based lube(Safe for use with condoms), a lube shooter, or other suitable applicator that can get the lube inside, where it will do the most good, and trimmed nails, with clean hands.

The partner should start with one finger, lubed, and begin to stretch you out slowly, then add a single finger each time over a period of several minutes, always working slowly and patiently to relax both the external and internal anal sphincters. The relaxing method varies between individuals, but usually involves a repeated insertion, and retraction of the fingers while slowly spreading the fingers within the rectum, widening the opening slowly.

Rock the hand gently during this time, to facilitate widening the anal opening without tearing, as to tear the rectum (Anal fissure) can be not only extremely painful, but take a long time to heal, as well as making that partner gun shy about anything anal in the future.

Once the pictures are sufficiently relaxed to allow for penetration with minimal discomfort, things should progress slowly, until you become more familiar with the sensation. Having a caring, patient Dominant who wants you to enjoy the act as well helps immensely, and can enhance the enjoyment of your Dominant greatly, as well as increasing the value of His property.