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I am a  submissive gay man and have sex with my "master" on a daily basis. He will put me on the swing, tie me and stretch my legs and use me at his pleasure.

Also, there are usually some of his "friends" who come and join him in using my mouth and ass for their pleasure (I have no say)

So there are between 1-8 men using me at a time. We do not use condoms but they are all cheked by my master, regarding STDs

so I receive anal sex almsot daily between 15min to a few hours. I enjoy it, we use a lot of lube and I don't feel much pain although feel sore till next day.

So we use lube and no extreme pain occur but I worry about any long term damage.

Is it safe to be penetrated anally on a daily basis??

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From what I have hard over the years that no it is not good to have anal sex daily.  Most often I have hard of this is once a week.  I am not an expert in this field but I know what people say at parties and events.  I do not want to tell you to stop but it might be something you might wish to bring up with your Dr.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

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Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

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D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

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I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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