Expert: arani_CsA - 12/3/2008

Question
hi..pretty soon I will be getting a slave here as a live in.  so, in order to establish dominance quickly, what are some things I can do in an expediant manner to teach her whose the boss?  thank you!

Answer
Hello, Sir...

Thank you for coming to me with your question.  I hope I can help you find the answers you are looking for.

I applaud you for taking steps to better your skills in mastering a slave.  Just because a man (or a woman) has a dominant personality type, that doesn't mean he automatically has the skills necessary for mastering a slave so that she feels totally under his control and yet totally protected and safe.  

Mastering a slave is something that must be undertaken with great care, and should not be done quickly.  The process actually begins long before actually meeting a prospective slave; before a man can thoroughly master another, he must first master himself.  Mastering a slave is not the same as dominating a submissive; it involves an entirely different mind-set.

I like to say that a submissive DOES what her Dominant wants; the slave BECOMES what the Master wants.  In other words, a submissive may be focused on the actions required to please her Dom, and that also give her pleasure as well.  A slave, on the other hand, is doing what comes naturally, and responding to her base nature.  It's not something she does because she enjoys it; whether she enjoys herself is immaterial.  Sometimes she may hate what she is commanded to do, but she does it because she made a commitment.  It's not so much a romantic relationship as it is a job.  If love grows between the Master and slave, that is a nice perk that may or may not be required.

A slave is not an extreme submissive; she is a different creature altogether.  She is an owned woman; nothing more, and nothing less.  What personality traits or skills she possesses are the ones her Master wants her to have.  Or, rather, he sought out a slave who contained those traits which best met his own needs, and then fine-tuned her nature to further meet those needs.  A true slave will already have the desire to serve; it's as natural to her as breathing.  All she is looking for is the right man who can nurture that need and control her in the way she craves.

Here are some good websites that can help you find what you are looking for:
http://www.rlslavery.com
http://www.bestslavetraining.com/
http://www.bornslaves.com/index.html
http://www.enslavement.org.uk/

Good luck to you, and I wish you much happiness with your new property.  If you have any further questions, please feel free to bring them my way.

arani_CsA,
devoted property of Clampius_Arelius