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redselina wrote at 2012-11-29 11:57:13
I have been married for 19 years and with my husband for 26 years.  Sometimes it takes a lot of time for women to realise what they need.  I was always in control and used sex as a way to get love but it never benefited me.  I only just realised that I liked being submissive to a certain point and my husband is playing the game if thats what you call it..because I read more about it than what he does I proably know more but he is trying hard to come to the party.  It is slowly working but I  wish there was somewhere he could learn what I need.  It's about finding the right person to experience ther needs with you.




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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

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35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon. Founder of Southern Indiana Consensual Kink (S.I.C.K.)

Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

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Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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