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hi,

i have reciently been visiting bdsm web pages and found them a real turn on, i went to visit a escort and asked for a hand job while she slapped my testicalls, it was a real turn on, i have been back to her twice and each time she would slap them harder, the one time after she made me cum she told me she had a strap on i asked her to show me, when she put it on i got hard again and she asked me if she should use it on me but i said no, so she made me masterbate for her while she slapped my balls,i always get tottally naked and aske them to keep their cloths on, i was away on a business trip last week and called an escort to my hotel room and told her i like to be dominated and like hand jobs, she gave me the best sexual experiance of my life, she pulled my balls and slapped them told me to call her misterss and ask her for permission to cum she really gave my balls a good working over pulling them so hard i had to ask her to stop, when i came she took it in her hand and made me eat it, the next morning i was so horney from the experiance i had to masterbate again, i cant get that sensation out my mind and want the experiance again and again, what is going on with me?

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welcome to the world of kinky sex.  there is nothing wrong with you at all many are just like you and they learn and try things to find out just what they do enjoy the most.

I think you just need to explore more and be sure to stay safe with it set up safe words so anything you try can be stopped and fast. Take it slow do not just jump in and rush let your head get the chance to get on the same page as the rest of you. Be safe most of all, and do have some fun learning and exploring.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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