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I have a STD, I take medication for it and seem to have it under control. I'm owned and my Owner is obviously aware of my situation. Due to other things, I have been given permission to seek out play partners. So far, I have been upfront and honest with all the people, telling them both about my Owner and about my STD. The reactions suck. Am I telling them about my STD too soon? I won't lie, I was lied to and that's how I got it. But is there a better way?

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No I think you need to tell them about it but also give them information so that they understand and that if protection is used and your not on an out brake that spreading it is much less.   You need to be upfront and if that is all they are after is sex and that is what matters most not anything less do you really want to be with them?

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

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Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

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D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

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I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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