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Expert: - 2/22/2008


Question
While pregnant, I avoided all spankings and any sort of pain play, out of fear it
might harm the baby somehow, and I couldn't think how to ask my ob/gyn
about it. Now, I've got a friend that's expecting, and like me, while willing to do
without for the sake of the baby, wondering if there are safe alternatives, or safe
limits to spanking and/or pain play while pregnant.

Answer
Sorry for my delay I have been working out of town and it is hard to get on line when I am on the road.

First off if you can lay on your stomach or bend over and not have pain or feel to uncomfortable I see no reason why you can not be spanked.  If your not leaving marks that will raise questions at your Dr apt.s  I can not see how it can harm the baby in any manner.  But I am not a Dr so I might be way off base.  I have known many as I was spanked well pregnant and it did not harm either of our children.

I hope this helps and maybe it is time for you to look into a kink friendly Dr.

I  thank you for the question and I do hope that you have a great time.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

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Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

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I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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