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I have a master and I've been ordered to come up with a slave name. Any suggestions? Something along the lines of trash, unwanted, leftovers, reject. Any help would be much appreciated.

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Hello...

Thank you for coming to me with your question.  I do apologize for not answering it right away, due to being out of the country on vacation.

A slave name is very important.  The changing of her name signifies not only a change of status, but also of identity.  I know, from personal experience, how humbling it can be to realize that you don't even have the right to determine what you call yourself.  Most slave's names will also carry some component of her Master's name -- for instance, my own Master's initials are a part of my own name.

Slave names can come from a variety of sources.  In the Gorean world, you will often see girls named after various characters from the Gor novels, or given other names which sound exotic.  My own name comes from the Sanskrit (ancient Indian), and was the name of one of their sex goddesses.  Others (I'm guessing you are one of these) will be given names that could be seen as demeaning or humiliating, as a reminder to the slave that she is of a lower status than her Master.  Some names will be given based on a personality trait, or some favorite flower or gemstone (for example) of the Master's.

My suggestion is to look in a thesaurus for words that are similar to what you have mentioned.  (A thesaurus is like a dictionary, but instead of definitions contains a list of synonyms and antonyms -- words that mean the same or the opposite of a given word.)  You can find some good ones on line -- I like to use Yahoo's.  Or try a website that allows you to type in a word and then translates that word into another language -- these can also be found on line.

Instead of presenting your Master with just one name, make up a list of several that appeal to you.  Give him the list and allow him to choose which one he likes.  In the end, however, you may not have any choice, but have to adapt to whatever he chooses to call you.  Consider a name to be one of the best gifts that a Master can give to his property.

Good luck to you, and if you have any other questions, feel free to contact me.

arani_CsA,
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I am available to answer any questions you might have about Master/slave relationships. While my Master and I are Gorean, I have intimate knowledge of other forms of consensual slavery as well. I can offer advice in the areas of learning to come to an understanding of one's slave nature, learning how to best please one's owner, and other problems that come up in the day-to-day life of a slave.

Experience

I was collared by my Master on May 6, 2000, and on Nov. 8, 2003 became his wife as well. Prior to that time, I wore the collars of two other men.

Publications
My website, which can be located at http://www.geocities.com/dancer_of_gor/index.html

Education/Credentials
I have an advanced degree in the health professions. In addition, I have been a slave for over ten years, and during that time was trained by three different Masters with regards to slavery in general as well as how to serve them in particular. One of these Masters required me to train the other slaves in his chain.

Awards and Honors
At one time, I was given the rather dubious honor of being voted the "Sexiest Slave" in Yahoo Gor. I don't take this too seriously, and don't encourage anyone else to do so either.

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