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How or where does one go to learn to focus? Master said that i need to learn to focus soley on him,i thought i was but i need to learn more

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Yeah, you could go look this up on your own, but perhaps your master needs to give less vague commands. Supposedly you could consider him in all things to the point of ridiculousness, such as "Oh, Jamba Juice has a new beverage, would my master like that beverage." Then again, maybe your master is lame and just says stuff that he thinks sounds masterly even though he doesn't know what he's talking about. I believe that masters may have a certain responsibility to take care of their slaves, and that may very well extend to explaining what they mean and what they really want.
 I'm going to leave this up to a jury of your peers. Go raise this question on the boards at collarme.com or the BDSM boards of literotica.com. You'll likely get better answers there.

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