AboutMaster Shadow Expertise Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.
Experience 31 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.
Organizations Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder).
Publications Alt Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".
Education/Credentials , Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.
Expert: Master Shadow Date: 6/30/2008 Subject: Information on Domme
Question I am a married woman of 6 years. I have had the urge and willingness to be a sub in rl. Its in my heart I feel it. My husband has recently decided that he would love to be my domme and be over me. I have had others but not sure what to do to tell him to get started. Is there any information or ideas that you can give me on how to get him going and giving him and overview of things. Anything is greatly appreciate. Thank you very much Sir and have a wonderful day!!
Answer I would be honest with your need. Tell Him it is time, if He wants to try it. Explain how you feel. It might make the difference.
As far as advice on Domination, that isn't really something learned, but born with. Domination, like submission, is a genetic trait that cannot be changed. In short, you either ARE or ARE NOT Dominant.
There are many wonderful sites still available on the Internet where anyone from the newbie to the HardCore Veteran information regarding the Lifestyle. Below are a few that might be of interest.
I hope these help. They are learning sites, where terms, descriptions, and ideas might be found, including a Collaring Ceremony, if I'm not mistaken (Hint, hint!LOL) which are totally awesome! Best of luck on Y/your Journey together.
