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Expert: Lady Aryana - 6/28/2008


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i live on an island,and i am looking for a relationship with a kind gentle
femdom. i am a bdsm virgin. i fantasize most about what i call female
worship. strap-on,stilletto cleaning,footbath,tounge and full body
massages,golden showers,pain play w/clamps,and hand only.i am straight w/
bisex tendecies.i have graduated to a two inch dildo,i would like to explore
widening my ass,so i can take a fist,i swallow my come,i drink my own piss(in
training)i would like to know more on contacting those in the bellinghamwa
area or seattle.
since i am new i would like to have a temporary relationship.at this time i am
try to to learn dynamics between gentle and kind femdoms and their subs

Answer
rawson,

Well I am not sure just what you are looking for but let me suggest a group in which you will be able to talk to other FemDom's and their submissives/slaves.

The group is http://www.mschristine.com/domestic.shtml

I would also suggest you try www.collarme.com you might be able to find people who have the same interest as you, not to mention a FemDom who is willing to move if your not able to.

as for starting out new, you can try all these things on your own, which will allow whom ever you decide to submit to understand and know you are already willing to press pass these limits, and explore new ones.

As for your ass, I simply suggest you go on with a bigger plug once you get used to the small ones. You can also get an inflatable on which will save you money in the long run. As for fisting, there are dildo's out there that are in the shape of a fist. Just remember lube IS your friend. The more you have the better off you will be in the long run.

Good luck

Marie

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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Old Guard, Victorn Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Email groups for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. I was collared to my Master, then we married Sept 25 2003. I am no longer in a relationship with him, although as D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either DD or D/s, or simply learning more in order to help others.

Experience

I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissive, I have been both a real time slave, submissive, and submissive wife. I am not in a committed relationship at the moment although I am in a DD based relationship which has a very strong sense of D/s although it is NON sexual. I am not collared, and I still am always on the look for others to play with around me, and at the moment I have to male slaves who would like to submit. Simply haven't had the time or place to do that yet. I know many egroups who can offer support. I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 22 yrs in BDSM in one way or another

Organizations
I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I belong to the local BDSM community in AL, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.

Publications
Egroups, Blogs, Journals, And some story writings.

Education/Credentials
Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victorian and Old Guard. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.

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