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At school, everyone knows me as a sweet, innocent, kind, friendly, fun girl. I'm also a virgin.
So one day, the guy I like was talking to a bunch of guys, they were having guy talk, and he said he had watched a porn movie. I let it slip that I had seen the same movie, and all the guys burst out laughing hysterically. I said "yeah they were all naked girls, and none of those girls were even attractive!"
Later on I was sitting at the cafeteria and I looked across and saw the guy I like looking at me with this HUGE grin on his face.
Ok what was that big grin for? It sort of creeped me out a bit.
thanks
Ana
ANSWER: He wants to nail you. Tell him to take a hike.
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QUESTION: The guy is 26. I'm also 26. He has a long distance girlfriend, she lives more than 2,000 miles away on another continent, she flies to see him every 4 months or so. He is going to be here for another 2 years with me pursuing our doctorate degree. She is 19 years old and is not only hideously ugly, but also very much child-like. Him and I both have the same career goals and are the same place in life.
You think when I mentioned the porn thing...does he think I'm slutty? I hope not. I look very wholesome.
Answer Honey, this is the 21st century. Women have come a long way since the prim and proper 40's when if you kissed on a date you were a slut. It has now been freely acknowledged that we are human and normal and have desires that we are free to act on. If you want to date this man, tell him you find him attractive. Watching a porn flick doesn't make you a slut. If you want to date this guy, ask him for help on something and then invite him for coffee afterwards and just TALK to him. You'd be amazed at what might happen when you start communicating. You also don't have to blurt out that you are a virgin, you save that little nugget of information until the right time. I thought you were a teenager when you first wrote to me, I apologize because I gave you the first answer it was based on my belief that you were 15 or so. Mea Culpa--I gave you the wrong advice or at least advice inappropriate for your age.
