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Hi,
At school, everyone knows me as a sweet, innocent, kind, friendly, fun girl. I'm also a virgin.
So one day, the guy I like was talking to a bunch of guys, they were having guy talk, and he said he had watched a porn movie. I let it slip that I had seen the same movie, and all the guys burst out laughing hysterically. I said "yeah they were all naked girls, and none of those girls were even attractive!"
Later on I was sitting at the cafeteria and I looked across and saw the guy I like looking at me with this HUGE grin on his face.
Ok what was that big grin for? It sort of creeped me out a bit.
thanks
Ana
Ana,
Don't worry about the grin, the boy you were looking at, was simply remembering back to the fact you let it slip out you also watched the movie and he watched the movie and boys being boys was thinking about what he was doing or thinking during the movie and what you were *doing or thinking* during the movie. As for being a virgin, good for you. I have a daughter who just talked to me about sex, she isn't interested in it, but she is wondering if it is normal to please herself at her age. You didn't mention your age, but I am going to assume you are old enough to watch these movies and understand what they are about. Talk to your parents, and figure out what it is that you are going through and what it is boys are thinking. His thoughts are normal, and don't worry, his grin has been there a long time, problem is now you are going to start noticing it alot more now that he know you do something he does. Watch at least one thing he shouldn't be watching.
Movies like that should be for couples who wish to enjoy each other boy use them as a mean to find release just like magazines, and books they buy. Girls find other ways as they get older, pleasing yourself isn't wrong, but a movie should be enjoy with someone you care about and wish to explore things with. You have a lifetime to watch these things.
Don't let this boy bother you, he has always had a smile on his face, but now as I said, since he knows your secret, it will always be a bit brighter. Just remember to smile back a bit bigger, and walk away. Enjoy the moment, and remember there is nothing to be embarrassed about.
Have a wonderful summer.
Marie
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