AboutOscar G. Expertise From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues.
Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM
Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.
Experience 15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying
Organizations belong to Assorted loose organizations in Southern CA
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Education/Credentials Engineering & Military
Awards and Honors Military and respect from my peers in the BDSM community
At school, everyone knows me as a sweet, innocent, kind, friendly, fun girl. I'm also a virgin.
So one day, the guy I like was talking to a bunch of guys, they were having guy talk, and he said he had watched a porn movie. I let it slip that I had seen the same movie, and all the guys burst out laughing hysterically. I said "yeah they were all naked girls, and none of those girls were even attractive!"
Later on I was sitting at the cafeteria and I looked across and saw the guy I like looking at me with this HUGE grin on his face.
Ok what was that big grin for? It sort of creeped me out a bit.
thanks
Ana
Answer Hi Ana:
I am not sure this qualifies as a BDSM type question. And it barely fits within the realms of dating advice. But for what is worth i will give you my perspective of possibilities of what it could mean, if anything.
Since you describe yourself as a sweet, innocent, kind, friendly, fun girl and people also know and have that image of you, I can see why everyone has laughing. For one they had a hard time believing you actually saw a movie of that kind, if you did. And if you didn't and bragged about it, the found it funny for the same reason. Laughter is at times a nervous response to mental incongruity or insecure fears.
The fact that you also said they were not attractive could have been the laugh trigger. Either they believe you said that as a woman and they agreed with you and laughed at the irony, or perhaps thinking "oh, she thinks she is all that".
But the grinning guy is an enigma. But it is perhaps your opening point to establish conversation with him to ask him what does he find so funny to be grinning when he looks at you. be prepared for an embarrassing answer, either one you would like or disgust you. But perhaps he thought it was funny you said what you said, because of the image that people have of you, and having done and said something that seem outta character for a sweet, innocent, kind, friendly, fun girl, such as yourself. But if the grin creeps you out, keep away by all means and trust your instincts.
I hope it helps you shed light into this matter.
Be well and be safe.
Oscar G.
