Aboutarani_CsA Expertise I am available to answer any questions you might have about Domination/submission, or Master/slave relationships. Currently, I have been spending a lot of time researching and thinking about the relationship between spirituality and slavery/submission. I define myself as a Gorean slave, but I have studied other forms of consensual slavery as well.
Experience I was collared by my Master on May 6, 2000, and on Nov. 8, 2003 became his wife as well. Prior to that time, I wore the collars of two other men. My website can be accessed at http://www.geocities.com/dancer_of_gor, and my Yahoo! group at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/itsaslaveslife.
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Expert: arani_CsA Date: 6/11/2008 Subject: My potential new sugar daddy has pee fetish and is submissive how can I please him?
Question I am not very dominant but I do lean towards it verse being submissive. I am mostly a mutual lover though.
He told me exactly this when I asked him what he was into and I asked him to be detailed: "i love to eat pussy,love to feel a woman cum in my mouth,love to have a woman pee in my mouth,love to tongue the butthole" also he said "i would love to be dominated by you"
I am a virgin. He isnt. I am 20 he is 48 . I need a little help I want to know some things I can do to really satisfy him (there will be no intercourse and I don't give head)
I am real and really would appreciate some tips and suggestions on how to satisfy him with his like for pee and cum. Special things and moves and positions I can guide him into. I don't want to ask him because I really do want to be dominant for him.
Answer Hello...
Thank you for coming to me with your questions. I hope I can help you find the answers you are looking for.
First of all, the D/s lifestyle is not just something you do -- it's a whole-life philosophy. Some people just enjoy a little kinky play in the bedroom, others have a full-blown Master/slave relationship like my husband and i do. i would strongly encourage you to read up on the lifestyle, if you have not already done so, to help you get a better handle on what to do and how to handle your feelings.
I also suggest that you sit down and have a long talk with your boyfriend (it sounds like you have done some of this already), and find out exactly what he wants out of the relationship and what he is willing and able to provide for you. You provide him with the same information, and also discuss why it is that this kind of thing is meaningful to you.
Some things you can do to get started is to have him wear a collar and leash when he is serving you sexually, with you holding the leash and commanding him. It's very common for female dominants to forbid the submissive to orgasm while serving them in this way. On the wizdomme site, there is a good lottery-type of system for determining when the submissive is allowed to have an orgasm. As to the golden showers, i would start by doing it in the bathtub or shower until you better your aim. Basically, stand up and have him kneel at your feet, with his mouth positioned under you to catch your urine stream. He may actually be into golden showers as much as being a human toilet, which means he might enjoy having you pee all over him or on his face as much as in his mouth.
You can also try having him serve you outside the bedroom, such as fixing you dinner or rubbing your feet after work. Wearing a collar around the house is good, and you may deny him clothes altogether. Remember that consent is a big deal in this lifestyle; you should control his behavior, but never force him to do something that he doesn't want to do. At the same time, try to push him past his limits, in a safe and non-threatening way.
Lastly, i would encourage you to find a BDSM group that meets in you area, where you can talk to others who enjoy this lifestyle and learn how they interact with each other. You can find a listing of such groups at http://www.drkdesyre.com
I hope this has been of help to you. If you have any further questions, feel free to send them my way.
