Expert: Oscar G. - 7/7/2008

Question
I like to be claimed by men. I am a lesbian but really enjoy the danger of being taken! Where could a girl find men to do this with who won't hurt me to the point of requiring hospitalization but will do enough to make it real for me?

Answer
Hi Renee:

The fact of your gender orientation might either turn off or entice too much certain guys. But the best approach would be to put an Ad, be very specific about your desires, and take your time scanning and getting to know the potential male dominant in question.
Once "Abducted", then what? Kept in bondage? Struggling in your bonds, teased? What would be your limits? things allowed and not allowed would have to be defined. And make sure the guy in question knows.
Just for being Dom and Tops  does not always mean they always  want to have their way alone. They do work with the lady as to make her comfortable and enjoy the experience, so she, hopefully comes back to try again and again. I would suggest try alt.com, bondage.com or collarme.com. Best way to find locals is  if you live in a big city and go to social BDSM gatherings called Munches. Which are as name implies a meeting in a public place (safe) to chat and eat a bit and discuss these topics without any pressure to participate then and there.

I hope I have given you enough info to find what you need.
Be safe and have fun.
Oscar G.