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About MrsMarie
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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Old Guard, Victorn Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocals, and so forth. Email groups for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. I was collared to Master, Sept 25 2003, We were in a long distance relationship until March the following year. We were married Sept 23 2006.

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I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissives, I am a real time slave, I know many egroups who can offer support. I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 22 yrs in BDSM in one way or another

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Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking, and Gorean lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victoran and Old Guard. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.

 
   

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Topic: BDSM



Expert: MrsMarie
Date: 7/3/2008
Subject: Domme Stepsister

Question
QUESTION: I have very domme StepSister who was alwasy and still in control of me, She is Daughter of my stepmom (my dad's 2nd wife) from stepmom's 1st husband. My StepSister's name is Roksana Khan and she started to use me like her personal maid long back. Do you think when can be the right age to use younger stepbrother like a personal maid by the elder stepsister without considering legal aspects.   

Now I am 31yrs and She is 46yrs old. I was 2 yrs and She was 17 when my dad married Her mom.

regards   

Neel

ANSWER: Neel

Not really sure what you are asking.. Cleaning and all that can be done without any legal aspects. Just when it involves sex that there can be problems. You dad should have said something if he thought things were getting out of control.

You are both over the age of consent now, so you have two choices. Tell her to clean it herself, or do as she wishes and not complain. Not much anyone can do since you are over the age of consent.

I am not sure where you are from, and which state. Although each state has a different age of consent. Some states allow kids to marry with parents permission as young as 14, others you have to be over the age of 18.

So depending on what it is your looking for depends on what and how is making you do something.

Good luck

Marie

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QUESTION: Hi Ms Marie

I am not within USA, I am from India. So far I can remember at my age 5 yrs she used to get me to do simple things like put her worn dresses and undies in repective laundry busket, fetch her cig pack from bedroom to living room etc. From age 8 yrs (She was 23 yrs then) She started to get me everyday multiple times to take off her shoes, boots from her feet, put them on her feet, msg her leg and feets for hours.

What do you think of this?

ANSWER: Neel,

Sounds like you need to cut the cord.. Tell her how you feel if you have issues with what she did. I am not sure what happens in your country, although I was under the impression that in India women were not in charge. Sounds like she found a way to get what she missed, and your father would allow it along with your stepmother.

 Now that you are of age, how do you feel about what happen. Seems there is some liking as you are making an issue of it now.

Stand up, tell her that you approve or disapprove. You need to do something. You can't change the past, but you can decide what and where your life is going to go from here.

Good luck

Marie

---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------

QUESTION: Hi Mrs Marie

I will say very frankly when she started that I didn't liked the way she was using me but both my dad and stepmother not only allowed her to use me like her personal maid rather they have supported her to use me like her personal maid.

Later I also started to like to serve like her personal maid infront of others too.

Can you answer what she is was right or wrong at your point of you.

Neel

Answer
Neel,

For me to answer this would be wrong.. What I think and what happen to you are two different things. Would I allow this kind of action to happen to one of my kids.. No, but then again your not mine. There is only one person that can decide if this was right or wrong. This would be you. Now you simply have to confront her, or move on. Nothing I say will change what happen to you, so sorry but there is nothing I can do. I wish you luck

Marie

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