AboutMrsMarie Expertise Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Old Guard, Victorn Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocals, and so forth. Email groups for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. I was collared to Master, Sept 25 2003, We were in a long distance relationship until March the following year. We were married Sept 23 2006.
Experience I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissives, I am a real time slave, I know many egroups who can offer support. I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 22 yrs in BDSM in one way or another
Organizations I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I belong to the local BDSM community in AL, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.
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Education/Credentials Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking, and Gorean lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victoran and Old Guard. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.
Expert: MrsMarie Date: 7/8/2008 Subject: What is a Master's responsibility?
Question What is a Master's responsibility towards his slave in regards to medical treatment? i am a collared slave living 24/7 in my Master's home. i work full time outside the home, and am expected to do all the housework in addition. i am also expected to care for his two very unruly boys, being punished when they misbehave. my paycheck goes directly into his account and i am at his mercy for any kind of money. i recently developed some major medical issues and he is refusing me medical care, saying it is too expensive. i have insurance through my work but since i have no pocket money i can not afford the copays. He promised to take care of my every need when he collared me, and did a good job of that until he met someone else and brought her into the family. Now it seems that i'm just here to bring in a paycheck and take care of the house. i have asked for money to go to the doctor or to get my meds filled, and he refuses. What should i do?
lani
Answer lani,
I am sorry to hear about your problem. As for what you should do, I would suggest you open another account, and have your check deposited into this account. Take what you need to if you want deposit the rest into your Master's account. If this is not something you can do, look into your work and see if there is some kind of account where you can have money put aside for any medical problems. I am not sure just what it is called but there are ways where you can have the co-pays put into a account, where you save, and when you need it, it is there.
As for what a Master's responsibility is, he is to make sure she is taken care of Physically, mentally, and all area's of her life. So when he denies you of any kind of treatment then he is failing of his job. So once he stops taking care of you, then he has broken his word and responsibilities so the collar is no longer valid. So your job to follow his rules are open for you to decide what it is you want to do. If he is causing risk to you, then by rights, you have the right to leave. No matter how hard it may seem it is your right.
Since you are working, he should have a separate account where any where between 10 to 20 percent of your income should be put into a saving account, this way if something were to happen to him you have money put aside so that you are taken care of.
If I were you, and you wish to work this relationship out, I suggest you fix the deposit, then write out a contract where it states that your medical bills *all of them* are taken care of. There is is something else you are worried about, I would suggest you put into this contact. If he or you breaks any of the contract, this means either one of you can walk away from the relationship.
