Expert: CougarDomme - 8/16/2008

Question
My Mistress is a married Woman who lives 800 miles from me. i have known her for many years, previously with me as the Dom. Recently we started up again, but this time we gravitated toward our natural role of Her the Dominant and me the submissive. i am a 53 year old married male and (wish she knows) looking to provide her the best experience possible for this relationship. There will be occasional in person visits due to my work, but most will be long distance.
My question is do You have any recommended ways I can show her my devotion and servitude long distance, with the reality we have spouses who can not know. Thank You for Your time. i have been tasked with coming up with ideas and could use expert help. Thank You!!!!!

Answer
Long distance relationships do not work even when both parties are single. Both of you are cheating on a spouse, so the relationship is based on deception and there is a strong probablity that your vanilla spouse is going to find out and be crushed. You have a commitment to your wife and she has one to her husband and both of you are making a huge mistake. I cannot stress how strongly I believe that BDSM is based on total honesty with your partner and both of you have a foundation of LIES and DECEPTION because of the adulterous nature of the relationship. Either get a divorce or get rid of your Mistress.