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Ma'am, i just asked the question but gave the wrong email, it is as above. please accept my apology. m

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Long distance relationships do not work even when both parties are single. Both of you are cheating on a spouse, so the relationship is based on deception and there is a strong probablity that your vanilla spouse is going to find out and be crushed. You have a commitment to your wife and she has one to her husband and both of you are making a huge mistake. I cannot stress how strongly I believe that BDSM is based on total honesty with your partner and both of you have a foundation of LIES and DECEPTION because of the adulterous nature of the relationship. Either get a divorce or get rid of your Mistress.

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I can answer any question about BDSM in practice, theory or relationships

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I have been in the BDSM scene for 25 years. I am a prodomme with a specialty of medical play. I give demonstrations on safe, sane and consensual play in the area of play: sounds, needle play, medical,saline infusions,sterile procedure,fisting,fire,knife and RACK edge play.

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