About Tara Expertise I can answer most questions relating to BDSM. If I don't know the answer I have a network of people who have been in the lifestyle for decades on whos knowledge I can draw from. I am becoming a bit of a specialist in Master/slave relations with D/s being my base interest. Since I identify as a switch I am able to address both points of view. Play wise, my main interests are electric, fire, wax and flogging and have taught people how to play safely within these styles.
Experience I am a lifestyle BDSM player who is a council member of my local club where I hold the title of Education and Outreach Chair. Educating others about what it is that we do and how to do things safely are the driving factors of my involvement. Currently I run a BDSM guild and am an active member in online communities where I attempt to give factual advise to offset the poor advice so common on the internet.
Organizations NOBLE (New Orleans Bondage and Leather Enthusiasts)
NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom)
Education/Credentials Within BDSM my education has come from my unquenchable thirst for knowledge and mentors who are only too happy to share what they have learned over the years with me. As the education coordinator for NOBLE (The New Orleans Bondage and Leather Enthusiasts) I spend a great deal of time with national presenters picking their brains for all the information that I can. I have learned from Jay Wiseman, Fifth Angel, Dossie Easton, Travis Wilson, Scott Smith, Jerome Bambrick, Slavette, and countless others.
In my vanilla life I am working to complete my psychology degree so that helps to give me a little insight into the mind.
Question Hello i am interested in the slave lifestile but where can i find a mistress or master what are the popular sites where i can find a mistress or place a ad
Thank you
Bruce
Answer Hello Bruce,
This seems to be a pretty popular question. Looks like we're all out there trying to find our Master/Mistress and slaves. Some of the most popular sites are CollarMe.com, alt.com, and bondage.com. Some others that you can check out are Fetishfishing.com (new to me)and bdsmsingles.com. Most of these are completely free or have free sections to them. I even managed to find a fabulous Master on spankinginternet.com. Just never know where the right person will show up.
Of course some of the best places to find a partner is through local BDSM groups with many of them and many BDSM singles advertising on Craigslist.