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Expert: - 9/6/2008


Question
I am new to the BDSM scene and new to Raleigh...

How do I go about meeting people in the BDSM lifestyle and possibly finding a Master/slave relationship?

I need to be careful since I was in a domestic violence situation in the past and don't want to fall into that again!

Answer
First off look for munches in your area, they are times to meet in public so that you can get to know like minded people.  More and more areas are holding them and it can be a great place to grow and learn, and in a safe environment at the same time.

You can read all over on line and grow join some groups and talk with others and ask questions as well.  I have some that are a good place to learn if you might wish that help you can e-mail me privately for that list at awhitelcoud@awhitecloud.org

I hope this helped even in a small way

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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