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Expert: - 1/14/2009


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I would like to know what is a black day in the D/s lifestyle. This was a suggestion that was brought up to me but I have been unable to find out what it involves.

Answer
Okay to the best that I know Black day is the same as wearing white in the D/s world.  Black Day is for the people into Gore.  D/s some use white and call it “subbie clothes”.  Where you wear all white underwear and as much else wish that one can to draw you back to what and who you are and your place in your relationship.

Sorry for you delay in getting back to you I went off to talk to some of my friends before I just jumped in to say what I thought it was.  

I hope this helps you in some way.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

Experience

I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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