Expert: CougarDomme - 1/7/2009

Question
i am in this relationship with a man. we love eachother deeply and we are both switches. he has had previous little experience as a sub. he is more of a sub but had a dome side that comes out very often. he like humiliation fingering and mentioned strap on and is crazy about my feet. i kick a little when dominated but i really love to be dominated but enjoy so much dominating him and playing all these games of dominating him. i am just a little lost as to how to do the right thing and how to help him and myself to do the shifts. can you help me be a good dome and help him to be one as well?

Answer
There are no real rules to this, just have a good time with each other and enjoy your play sessions!  You can read some books, but each individual relationship is different and if you are both happy with what you are doing with each other then it's all good!  Before you do a scene just ask if he wants to top or bottom during the scene and go from there.