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i am a lesbian and want to take a slave from a male dom. is there a proper way of doing this that i am not aware of? i dont want to commit a BDSM crime or anything.
Dear Dawna
i would recommend you have a sit down with the slave and the dominant. I feel its important that the person you seek to have, and who is attached to another be informed.
Usually what i have experienced is that it is the slaves responsibility to ask for release. She or he has to be willing to close the book on one relationship before begriming a new one.
I feel regardless of what we think of the relationship, respecting it says alot to the integrity of the other dominant/master or mistress.
Best of luck in your relationship
warm regards
slave ziggy
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ziggy ziegler
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I am available to answer questions pertaining to the Master slave dynamic. The slaves journey into submission, mentorship, service,leather lifestyle, household management, and training. My life's focus is assisting individuals to realized their fullest potential through self awareness.
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I am a 45 year old female slave who has been part of the BDSM/M/s lifestyle since 1983 and have traveled thought out the community presenting on a wide variety of subjects pertaining to the master slave dynamic. I am currently writing a book on topics concerning the slave. I also host a slaves retreat in TN each year which focuses on the self actualization of the consensual slave. Mentoring and life couching for those involved in power exchange relationships.
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Slave quarters: "The mind body spirit of consensual slavery"
Art of slavery
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Aside from learning from lifes experiences i have a BA in psychology and a masters in socialogy. i have studied gender and human sexuality in an ever changing world.
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Southeast slave 2006
International slave 2006
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Masters and slaves
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