Expert: arani_CsA - 1/5/2009

Question
i was wondering if there are any M/s websites.for men/boys/guys because everywhere i go i cant seem to find one.it keeps showing me f/m relationships.

Answer
Hello...

Thank you for coming to me with your question.  I hope I can help you find the answers you are looking for.

Although there are quite a few websites around the web dealing with M/f relationships, very few of these are for heterosexual folk only.  I'm not aware of any that are exclusively for M/m and F/f couples, although there may very well be some out there.  But, in the on- and off-line groups that I've been involved with, there have been a large number of people of all sexual preferences.  10 years ago, when I was active in the chat rooms, it was often said that there were more lesbian or bisexual Dommes on line than heterosexual ones.  Actually, most of the people in the BDSM lifestyle that I know of are far more tolerant of various sexual preferences than the "vanilla" world.  You will find not only M/f couples, but M/m and F/f couples, and various types of polyamorous relationships.  

While I used to be very active in on-line role-playing sites, and on-line discussion forums, most of my experience these days is off line.  But if you go to Yahoo groups, or Google groups, or other similar sites, and search for BDSM or leather sites, you will undoubtedly find quite a few that cater to everyone.  I do know, however, that Yahoo has changed their groups search engine to block terms such as "BDSM," but try using the terms "submissive" or "submission," or "leather," or other similar terms.  You might also try LiveJournal, or MySpace, or some similar networking site, and find blogs written by people who share your interest.  I have a site on LiveJournal, and there it is possible to join communities grouped by interest.  By visiting a few of these blogs, and leaving comments on a regular basis, it is quite possible to meet others and possibly make a connection or two.

But the best advice I could offer you is to go off line.  Try to locate a BDSM group that meets in your local area (you can find a listing of such groups by state at http://www.drkdesyre.com), and attend a few events.  These groups will almost always have an on-line discussion forum that they use for sharing information and getting acquainted with each other, and they usually have various social and lifestyle-related events.  Here you can get to know people, both gay and straight, and make friends who might be able to introduce you to potential partners.  And you can know what they're really like, instead of only knowing what they want to share with you -- which may or may not be true.  

Good luck to you.  If you have any further questions, feel free to contact me again.

arani_CsA,
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