AboutMistress Violette Expertise I can answer questions related to the practice of BDSM, especially involving relationship issues and personal interactions. My expertise is in helping people sort out thoughts and feelings, define problems and find solutions. I'm happy to apply my BDSM knowledge and experience to this. I'm not the best person for questions dealing with mechanical contraptions, the physics of BDSM or Gor related matters.
Experience Seventeen years of real time, face to face practice of BDSM in my own personal relationships, 4 years of professional experience in distance training.
Education/Credentials My traditional education includes both a bachelor's and master's degree. I have no formal education in BDSM. I know what I know from interacting with experienced players, reading, and hands on experience.
Question My friend and I want to begin a master/slave relationship. We are just beginning and I want her(slave)to be satisfied. Can you please give me a few interesting things to do to her and say to her. She is very willing to do what I want. She has mentioned spanking,bondage and says what ever I want. I want a few good ideas to start this relationship out with a bang. I am inexperienced and want to learn to be a good master also. We are excited and ready and I want this off to a good start. Thank you for your help.
Answer Hi, Tim,
Rather than try to reinvent the wheel, I'm going to give you a web site that I think will be perfect for you. It has information, safety advice and much more, including the very kind of ideas you're looking for. I think this is a perfect place for both you and your friend to start. Good luck and have fun!
