Expert: Master Shadow - 10/16/2009

Question
yeah my gf doesnt like it when i do that to her, but when she does it to me i just love it, but she doesnt like to do it, is their neway that i can get her more into cause i just absolutely love it when she dominates me, i wish shed do it 24/7

Answer
I'd say it's time for some serious conversation, to find out EXACTLY what each of Y/you like and want out of this relationship. Realize, you can't force Her to become your Dominant, you must CONVINCE Her to do so, and in the long run, it's totally Her choice in this.

Perhaps, She wouldn't mind if you saw a Pro Domme, although I doubt it, as most women want their b/f's to be exclusive to them only. Seriously, the only thing you can do is talk to Her, let Her know how much you enjoy this. Perhaps, the two of Y/you could start out light, some paddling or something to loosen Her to the idea. This is a part of you, and a part of what makes you "you". It should not just be pushed back, or you will be unhappy, and wind up resentful, and the relationship will most likely break up.

Honest conversation is necessary in a relationship, and even moreso in a D/s or S/m relationship. Perhaps a lil "experimentation" is on order?

I hope this helps!



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                                                                    Master Shadow.